L_C,

My FWH was absolutely FURIOUS that I had dared to expose! He too called me vindictive and out to destroy him. I was totally freaked out, just like you are now. If you dare to look up my old posts you'll see what I mean. I thought I was driving everyone crazy with my posts. I felt more alone that I had ever felt in my whole life and I'm an only child!

I got phone calls where I would answer and WH would immediately shout at me, 'It's over!'.

After a while your WH will calm down. In the meantime, try as hard as you can to do your thing. Keep going to work/school, keep up your exercise routine (you'll need it now more than ever! Great job on the weight loss by the way!!), talk to your support group.

One of my responses to WH's tirades regarding exposure was right off this site: "I would think you'd be happy to finally let everyone know of your affair with OW?" Oh...that caught him off gaurd for a moment.

I so feel for you, but if I can do it, girl, so can you!