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Just an observation. In Church I saw balding divorced man, sitting with his much-younger girlfriend. The kids choir sang up front, and one of the girls in the choir is retarded. The girlfriend videotaped. Here's the revealing part; I could see on her screen that she pointed the camera in such a way that the retarded girl was always edited out of the picture. Every other choir member was videotaped. It was pretty obvious to me that she didn't want her video to show a retarded girl.
I think that says a lot about her. And maybe about spouse-stealing girlfriends in general.
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It's weird how one's mind wanders.... in church! <img src="/ubbt/images/graemlins/laugh.gif" alt="" />
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You're right Pep! Well I guess I must not have been that much into the choir, huh?
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Not good on the videotaping exclusion... I think you should get some points for at least looking in the right direction!
But, hey, that younger woman with the older balding man could have been his daughter! <img src="/ubbt/images/graemlins/wink.gif" alt="" /> Yeah right...just like my 47 year old exWS was with his 21 year old OW (the same age as his oldest "child") And this "father-daughter" couple also have a 3 year old son with Down Syndrome, conceived during the affair. Their son is a little sweetheart, and people often tell his "Grandpa" that! <img src="/ubbt/images/graemlins/grin.gif" alt="" />
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Sorry to hear about your XH heartmending. I wonder if the silliness of it takes some of the pain away?
I'm sure you know what a blessing is a Downs child. My brother is one, and he's brought much love to our family for 48 years.
Best wishes for healing during this joyous season.
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