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Hello there!

As I said, Mr. Conversation, my kids and me went to a Christmas fair today.
It was pretty cold but my kids had a ball going on the rides.
Mr. Conversation and me did what we do best: talk.

Then I met an old friend who I kind of lost touch with. She was pretty shocked hearing I´m divorced - that´s how long we haven´t seen each other! - and then kind of gathered: "So, you´re the new boyfriend?" Mr. Conversation and me looked at each other and said: "Ah, well, yes!" It was so awkward yet so funny: Here we were, having declared ourselves GF-BF without ever having kissed so far. At least our intentions were now crystal clear, but we´re both actually pretty shy.

Mr. Conversation stayed at my place for dinner, and after the kids were in bed, we talked some more. Before he left,
he gave me a mix double CD he had made for me - booklet and all! -with music I´m sure to like. It´s just so awesome.
We hugged goodnight and then - bing - we kissed. Finally. Nice, tender kisses, and my knees did get weak.
Perfect.

Oh, and we decided to definetely spend New Year´s together. We don´t know yet what exactly we´ll do, but we´ll do it together. And that was even before we kissed.

Can you see the big smile on my face? <img src="/ubbt/images/graemlins/grin.gif" alt="" />

Nora

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Your date sounds perfect!

I can see the smile!!

Enjoy all the new moments.

Karona


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Ah GFH, what a perfect time of year for romance...sigh <img src="/ubbt/images/graemlins/smile.gif" alt="" /> What a sweet date and what a sweet man. Enjoy!

I remember this time, exactly last year, I was doing the same and it was wonderful....very happy for you <img src="/ubbt/images/graemlins/laugh.gif" alt="" />

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Awwwwwwwwww, how nice <img src="/ubbt/images/graemlins/smile.gif" alt="" />. Congrats, and keep up the good work <img src="/ubbt/images/graemlins/wink.gif" alt="" />.

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Did I ever say anything about not being sure about Physical Attraction to Mr. Conversation?
If I did, forget it.

We had another perfect coffee date today, and I realised that what I suspected would happen actually had happened: Him fulfilling my needs for Conversation and Openness&Honesty (at least as far as I can tell by now, my BS detector didn´t go off at all) makes him attractive for me inside and out.

I consider myself lucky that I knew about Emotional Needs before I met this guy. And of course that I DID meet him.

*happy sigh*

Nora

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This all sounds so nice. And to think you and AGG both met your people on a dating sight.
Where I live, I'm certain there is no potential this route for me, UGH!!!

So glad things are moving in a positive direction.
Hard to believe you are the one who posted your original post. Personality means everything doesn't it?!

Enjoy yourself!!
Karona


Divorced 12/17/2003 Formerly KEB1205 Reg 9/02

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