It just seems that after all of my trying to make my marriage work it has fallen to pieces. H has moved out of the house into his own apartment and is not communicating at all. Currently I take care of my two kids and oc born outside my marriage. H is going to be caring for oc soon. H has denied any counseling, and blames me for the breakdown of the marriage. He accepts no fault in his multiple affairs and lack of communication. I have tried to get him to talk but to no avail. Neither one of us has filed any paperwork, and I'm just wondering if I wanted to relocate to another state could the state prevent me from doing so? H has taken me through so much I would just want to start over somewhere new just to get a fresh start. Afraid h would ask for extended visitation to keep me here. I don't know. H currently works some crazy hours that would only allow him to have children during the day and on weekends, but I am really considering leaving the state. We could switch holidays and he can have the summer or something like that. I don't know what to do. I only stayed here in this state because of him, and now I think he would use that to his advantage. I would just want to get a new lease on life. Any ideas.