Mimi,

Your situation was so similar to mine. Could you please take a look at my thread? http://www.marriagebuilders.com/ubbt/sho...e=0&fpart=7

I have run out of hope, out of energy.

I think that the A is ended, but they still work together. WH thinks that it is vengeful and vindictive of me to expect a seperation at work.


Me BS 44
XH 45
M 20 years
D19
D12
DDay 11.29.04
Separated 12.29.04
Plan A 24.02.05
Plan B 10.9.05
Plan D 2.2.06
Divorce 13.6.06
OW - former friend and D12's x-godmother (Skunkypoo)
OWH - philander, XH's former best friend (still shares skunkypoo with XH)


Anger = drinking a rat poison and waiting/wishing the rat would notice you drink it and the rat die from it.
Redhat