Hello everyone let me get right to it I guess.
Oct. 30 found out my wife of 15 yrs. was having an affair,Oct 31 she moved out. We have 2 children 13,14 she just up and left,in the sep. agreement she gave me everything kids,house,property,child support she said that i wasnt paying her any attention myself and my kids and her family dont believe this but anyway,she moved in with another man.He also left his wife thru all of this I have been civil with her,but when she calls me(rarely) she is not the same person I have been married to for 15 yrs,cussing,screaming,lying,I donrt understand why all this anger towards me.She has stopped wearing her wedding band and now they are talking about marrying when the 1 year waiting period is over.
I still truly love my wife I know this in my heart when I found out about the affair I asked her to goto counciling her parents asked her to goto counciling but she refused she said she didnt want to it as if she has given up completely.
I guess Im just lost like i said I truly love my wife and want her to come home and still tell her to this day that I love her and want her back, so here goes my questions.
Is it to late to save my marriage?
How do I get thru to her when I talk to her(since she will only talk to me when he is around her?)
Am I fighting a losing battle to get her back after she has moved in with another man?
Me and his wife talk alot on the phone we are both in the same situation well my wife and the other man have tried numerous times to try to get us to stop talking they are trying to force one another on each others families and our kids but everyone has told them they dont want to meet the other.
Why the rush??
She has said that she will not see the kids on christmas but wait till monday after.Is this normal to not want to see your kids on christmas?
According to his wife this is his second marriage that he has walked out on.
Thanks
Last edited by tjones71; 12/26/05 07:48 AM.