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Joined: Dec 2005
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Let me explain the situation:
I'm a 40 year old male, living with my girlfriend who is 53. (Yes I like older women). We have been living together for about 2 years. Next July we are getting married.
I'm thinking alot about getting a vasectomy lately. Even though my girlfriend is going through menopause (not sure on spelling). We talked about this when I first started seeing each other, we dropped the subject and went on with our life together. Now days I'm thinking about it more and more about getting the vasectomy. I know for a fact that she and I do not want kids. I do know that we can talk to each other about anything. I want to tell her this, but I'm not sure how she would react.
My question is what should I do? Should I go ahead and tell her my feelings about this? (She and I know that I have a fear of going to the doctor's office.)
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Joined: Jan 2006
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If you can't talk about things like that at your life experience...you should NOT get married. You need to be able to communicate about everything and I mean everything or your relationship will fail. I know you can do it...just sit down and say you need to talk about a few things..that is all.
Good luck,
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