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I will absolutely die if my husband has a child with the OW. we were TTC for 4 years and never able to. That's what i think his cheating is all about. He wanted a son so bad. Now that I have confronted her I wonder if she would try to concieve with him if he doesn't return to me.
i need to tell him how devasting that would be?
Just venting. while trying to breathe.
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I am too new to help you , but feel so badly for your situation. I just wanted to give you a little support. Breathe!
BW--Married 35 years, 3 children, mostly grown. business owner and very busy.
D Day November 5,2005
FWH -55 yrs old , PA in July & August 2005
NC since Aug. Admitted to several other brief A's going back 20 years.
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Vent away.
That is a difficult topic you have broached. But it is, at this time, not in your circle of influence. Better to explore the feelings now, where the results will not cloud your actions. Strong emotional surprises lead to stupid decisions and regrettable actions. Trust me.
As for telling him how it would make you feel... Nothing wrong with that. But be prepared. He MAY choose to ignore you.
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