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Big hugs and the happiest of Christmas's to you and DD. Are you spending it with your new love?
Faith
me: FWW/BS 52 H: FWH/BS 49
DS 30
DD 21
DS 15
OCDS 8
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OOoohhhhh. Yes Faithful, I was too timid to ask.
So Weaver, spill the beans.
SS
I think sometimes about all the pain in the world. I hope we can ease that here, even if only a little bit.
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Wow, you guys just made my day! Merry Christmas to you too Faith (you too SS)!!!!!!!
I am dog-sitting for Teresa this weekend, and I just got back in from walking them. They are the cutest little long-haired dashhound (sp) pups...two little boys Charlie & Clancy. I am totally in love with them!
Paige goes to her Dad's on Sunday for the week, then to Teresa's for New Year's Eve weekend, and Dave is coming here after Christmas. He is spending Christmas with his parents and siblings.
I really like him...and he likes me! He is sweet, and honest, and hard-working, and kind...and cute and sexy. I just can't quit smiling. I mean so far anyway. LOL Too soon to really know, I know it will be a year before the chemical levels go back to normal, so I am remaining very level headed. Oh who am I kidding. LOL
Faith I read what SS said about you on Pep's thread, and he is right about you. You are such a giving, thoughtful person. I just can't wait until joy finds you again, and your life calms down. You just wait girl. It is so wonderful on the other side of pain. If that makes any sense. Although I know you have inner happiness.
I try to remember that it is God that I need, and Dave that I desire...and to never confuse the two. That helps to keep me from fear and desparation. Because it is scary to open your heart again.
Life is so good now guys, I just can't believe it sometimes.
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I try to remember that it is God that I need, and Dave that I desire...and to never confuse the two. That helps to keep me from fear and desparation. Because it is scary to open your heart again. Awesome way to put it. You and Paige enjoy yourselves. I will likely not be around next week as I am with my kids for the week and they keep me on my toes! I know I will find joy again, thank you Weaver.
Faith
me: FWW/BS 52 H: FWH/BS 49
DS 30
DD 21
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OCDS 8
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Well have a good time faith...I know you will though.
Probably do you some good to get away from all this for a week or so. I know I have only been reading the posts of the few "oldies" I have followed, as I need a break from the pain for awhile.
Hopefully when I get to posting to new posters threads again, I will have left all the emotional stuff behind and know that I am responding without my own baggage clouding my judgement.
Sometimes I feel I am too soft to be of any real good use to new BS's, when tough love is what is required.
Anyway, you and the kids have an awesome week playing games and hanging out together!
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