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Re: WH wants "closure" - help me give it to him
believer #1544931 12/24/05 12:08 PM
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NewOutlook - Hi! It is so good to hear from you again. Thanks for the link. I will check it out. I hope you will post a thread giving us more details. There are a ton of new folks here who are very discouraged right now. I'm so happy that your situation is turning around.

Will do Believer...as our journey continues I will keep you updated...still many bumpy days ahead...

M 30 yrs. WS 50 (him) BS 51 (me) S 30 Granddaughters 5 and 8 DD July 4/03 MO Oct 4/03 NC Feb 14/04 Resumed A with OW March 1/04 Filed Petition for Divorce Jan13/05 How Many Roads Must A Man Travel Down Before He Admits He Is Lost?
Re: WH wants "closure" - help me give it to him
New Outlook #1544932 12/24/05 12:22 PM
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Sorry for the threadjack Believer,

Merry Christmas New Outlook.......


Wow.....that's all I can say.......wow.

BS 42 S-10 D-5 D-day 03NOV14 Plan B - 04Jul22 Filed(me) - 05May13 Final - 06Mar16 "When a man steals your wife there is no better revenge than to let him keep her."
Re: WH wants "closure" - help me give it to him
believer #1544933 12/24/05 12:31 PM
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BELIEVER,
Could God be working on him?
If so, would you allow God to also work on you?
There is no pay back that will ever justify his actions, so can you live with that and simply give to God?

You thread seem to me to, perhaps, turn a light bulb on. I don't want you establish any false hope, but it sounds a little bit like he is fealing the consequence of his behavior.

You just became an addition to my prayer list. <img src="/ubbt/images/graemlins/smile.gif" alt="" />
All Blessings,
Jerry
Re: WH wants "closure" - help me give it to him
shinethrough #1544934 12/27/05 10:40 AM
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***Believer - I'm sorry you didn't come to dinner the other night - everyone was asking about you. If I invite you somewhere, OW wouldn't be there.***

Just photocopy the note, highlight the above lines, and send to OW. Stir 'til done. Sit back and enjoy. Happy Holidays.
Mulan

Me, BW
WH cheated in corporate workplace for many years. He moved out and filed in summer 2008.
Re: WH wants "closure" - help me give it to him
Mulan #1544935 12/27/05 02:43 PM
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Believer,
Apparently, he still believes he can have OW and you.
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Re: WH wants "closure" - help me give it to him
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I sure hope if you move further south that you still have internet access.

These responses were great! If it were me, I would send a teeny note back, including a copy of this week's test results, whatever they may be. "Good-bye, XH, you will be in my prayers always. There will be plenty of time to talk if you choose to be in heaven."

I know it's just my mean nature, but sending a copy of his note to OW sounds like way too much fun!!!!! I don't know if I would be able to resist.

Thanks for your hours of help.

A smooth sea never made a skilled mariner.
~ English proverb


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Re: WH wants "closure" - help me give it to him
Neak #1544937 12/27/05 03:41 PM
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Some more ideas about the note.

Project it, full size in the highest wall of their neighbourhood as screen.

Transmit is as a transit alert on the city highways.

Give copies of it at the entrance of the movie teather before they arrive to see "... and the whale"

Send a copy to her hairstylist before her appointment.
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