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FWH called me today, wasnt in the best of moods tried for two hours to get ahold of me but the connection over there was horrible he said. Finally he got ahold of me and wanted his moms cell number. I said o boy what is he up to now? Well i got home just a little bit ago doing up some last minute christmas shopping. She walks in the house with this BEAUTIFUL flower arrangement with an envelope. Inside was this poem it was the most heartfelt letter I've ever read in my life. I couldnt believe my husband could write something so wonderful, im still crying. It touched my heart wow what a wonderful thing i needed. Merry Christmas to me!
BS 24
FWH 24
M- 3years
Together 7 years
DS 4
DD 1
D-Day 6/27/05
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Thanks for sharing that!! What an inspiring story.
God bless you and your family - and a Merry Christmas!!
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That is so sweet. I am so happy for you, but it must make waiting for him to come home even harder.
Have a merry Christmas.
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What the poem said:
This present was my idea. I asked my mom to pick it out and take it to you, but the meaning of this is from the deepest part of my heart.
The bouquet is our lives, which was once many indiviual and single entities, but now held together by a band. Unlike the bankd that holds this representation of our lives together, ours can not be cut, can not be broken, can not be overlooked by the beauty with which it holds together.
Our bands wer wrought from the earth and someday, long from now, will be returned to it upon our fingers and our eternal sleep.
Our life is represented by the white roses fro the purity of our actions in marrying to provide a family for our son.
The red roses are us; red for the blood and love we share for, not only our children, but for one another.
The yellow rose is our future, bright and warm.
The symbolism of this bouquet is a simple one: that i plan to walk throught the white roses of life with my children and you by my side, forging our own path to our yellow rose future.
I thought I was married to you for Cam and then later Rye, but from the good times as well as the bad this year, I've realized it was never them.
It has been YOU, it IS you, it will ALWAYS be you.
Merry Christmas Sweetheart
Love, J
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FWH 24
M- 3years
Together 7 years
DS 4
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ok, grab the kleenex <img src="/ubbt/images/graemlins/smile.gif" alt="" /> have your feet even touched the ground since your MIL delivered that? I'm very happy for you.
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That is a wonderful poem. Thank you for sharing it with us and Im Happy for you.
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I've read that poem like fifty times. I am gunna frame that one and put it up in our bedroom! Thats the nicest thing he has done for me in i dont know how long. Waiting on the days is horrible, I thought today was Monday, boy do i got my days confused. Have a Merry Christmas!!!
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Maybe you need to make a calendar to go with DS's <img src="/ubbt/images/graemlins/smile.gif" alt="" />
The homecoming is going to be worth the wait.
blessings
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Truly beautiful - treasure it and your lovely family!!
Merry Christmas!!
ME - 46 yo
exH - 45 yo
Married 20 years
Three children 19, 15, 12
Multiple affairs, D-days, NC, and recoveries - all false
Divorce final May 10, 2007
Each day is a new lesson on forgiveness and peace
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Lucky You! It made me cry. You deserve it. Thanks for sharing, it is beautiful and touched me.
Me/BS 48
Married 16 yrs/together 23; 1 child
Dday 4/05; WH "needed space" and left 5/05
WH Filed D papers 6/05 - Divorce final 12/05
WH moved in with OW 11/05; moved out OW 1/06
12/06 His 3rd and strongest attempt at reconcilliation (I believe OW still in picture)
2/07 Affair over, begging me to take him back - it's too late.
WH has tried numerous times to reconcile.
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Thanks everyone it touched me as well. I read it so many times again this morning! I hope everyone has a safe and wonderful Christmas!
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DS 4
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