What are you doing to build intimacy? What questions are u asking your S in an effort to get to know them better?

I found myself at a lost for words last night and I want him to talk to me and tell me his heart.

Well, maybe I can help somebody else out that's interested in building intimacy.

I ran across a couple of questions that are designed to draw couples together. I just list a few today and maybe a few later. I've got to go wrap gifts.

Ask him/her these questions and let h/h go into detail.

If you could go back to one day in your life is there a day you would like to relive?

What was your first day of school like?

Do you remember the first time you felt jealous?

1st crush, how old were you?

What was your favorite grade/teacher?

If you could pick any 5 people to eat dinner with who and why?

1st time you knew your were in love?

where did you go on your first date?

What was the best year of your life?

what's your favorite holiday, tv show, song movie etc. and why?

In your opinion who exemplifies a woman/man?

you probably already know the answer to these question but it is my understanding that they might stir up the op's love for you.

let me know how it works.

Thanks Teb,
I'm going to try them while we wait for the kids to fall asleep. Sounds good.

use a few of these questions last night and they worked wonderful. My H told me a few things I never knew.