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Eibrab, I'm here from the Christmas post, what's up? How are you? Did you have a good Christmas?
MSA
BW 43 me
FWH 39
M 1992; DD 18. 13
OC 8-05 - no contact
In recovery 8 years
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Mrs. S.
Thank you.
Your posts always drive right "home" for me... even if my views are a bit different, due to the type of personality I or my H possess.
I have read so many of your posts, but never got to the root of anything to see how your life made it to this point. Can I pry, politely? If you are not comfortable answering, I completely understand.
Knowledge is so healing for me.
I've learned so much from everyone else's experiences.
Why is there NC for the OC in your life ? Were you involved in that decision?
How does it affect you ? Your COM ?
Do you talk about the OC with your H ?
Have you felt shame or embarrassment because of the OC ? You seem like such a strong woman.
If there is already a thread pertaining to this, I'd be grateful if you could point it out.
Anything you can type to me here will be an asset. Emotions, feelings now.. how your M is.
I really value your insight.
Blessings,
Eibrab
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Oh, and I had a very nice, peaceful Christmas.. I hope your's was as well.. <img src="/ubbt/images/graemlins/smile.gif" alt="" /> Eibrab
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Eibrab:
How ya doing today?
Lem
Some people just don't get it, they don't get it that they don't get it.
I had the right to remain silent.......but I didn't have the ability.
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Eibrab, I have no problem answering your questions at all if you will post your email - because of events that led me to change my name here to Mrs. STOWaway which means OW could be lurking I would rather not post my responses here. I will check back here for your email address or you can go thru the moderator I believe if you would rather not post it publicly.
MSA
BW 43 me
FWH 39
M 1992; DD 18. 13
OC 8-05 - no contact
In recovery 8 years
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Mrs. S. Mandareams@hotmail.comYou are so kind, thank you. If this will cause you any grief, please don't feel you must share at all. Your comfort is important. <img src="/ubbt/images/graemlins/smile.gif" alt="" /> Blessings, Eibrab
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Mr. Lemonman, I suppose I might be doing far better if I treated myself to a fancy fountain pen. <img src="/ubbt/images/graemlins/smile.gif" alt="" /> Blessings, Eibrab
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Eibrab, I wrote down your email and will send one to you when I have a minute, but you can edit it off the site if you like now.
Thanks!
MSA
BW 43 me
FWH 39
M 1992; DD 18. 13
OC 8-05 - no contact
In recovery 8 years
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Eibrab, check your email! Sorry it took so long, I'm getting a cold!
MSA
BW 43 me
FWH 39
M 1992; DD 18. 13
OC 8-05 - no contact
In recovery 8 years
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400 bucks seems reasonable. ROTFL <img src="/ubbt/images/graemlins/laugh.gif" alt="" /> <img src="/ubbt/images/graemlins/laugh.gif" alt="" /> <img src="/ubbt/images/graemlins/laugh.gif" alt="" />
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