I spoke with suspected OM and GF yesterday on three way. They again reiterated I had the wrong guy and were upset with WW. They told me he met wife through his "cousin" who lived in the state next to us. They told me he lived in Birmingham first and then said he lived in Alabama but said they did not name a city. The man told me finally that they "used" to date a minute ago, but was vague about when. My wife and I lived in Birmingham for five years and moved about two years ago. This "cousin" supposedly still lives in Birmingham. The couple swears they were together all day on Monday and couldn't have called WW about our talk. He told me his "cousin" must have called her and insinuated that they maintained contact. He also stated this was a "bad" situation for everyone involved including his cousin. He stated his cousin has a live-in girlfriend as well and wants to keep him out of it. He said cousin's name was "greg". I told WW that all four of us needed to meet to discuss the situation and "greg". She told me Greg was the person she's been seeing off and on the past three or four years. He has been visiting his cousin here and she has contacted him via his cousin's cell phone. She said she knew he had a girlfriend but that Greg told her she was "boring". She said Greg made her laugh and that she was filling a void for excitement or someone that "laughs" and "jokes" all the time or is a lot of fun. She said she lied to herself thinking she was the marriage type. She said she was sorry she drug me into it but she just wants to be alone and date. I suspect this is the person she has always been. Does anyone buy this story as she has told so many lies?

I wonder if I should try and make contact with this person or girlfriend. They are supposedly first cousins and should have same last name both being men. Maybe she was so furious because what I might find out by contacting her "cover", possibly the first guy I suspected.

Hmmm. With so many lies, it is hard to figure it out. But if all of this is true, why was the GF of possible OM#1 crying two days before Christmas?

Maybe you can get a tape recorder and put it on your phone, or one in her car. Has she always lied so much?

Unfortunately, the past six months all she has done has lied. Why didn't I pick this up before marrying her I will regret for a long time. I have wasted seven years of my life.

Chances are good she's got something going on with one or both of these men Ozz. I'd start sleuthing to get to the bottom of it.

Tap the phones, tap her car, and put a keylogger on the computer.

A lot of foggy comments coming from your wife. Too many to make me comfortable.

Keep us up to date.