hey gang!
Haven't been on much. Hope everyone survivied Christmas & Happy New Year!

I need some instructions on how to buy & use spy equipment.
I finally got the proof I've been waiting for. Calls on cell to past problem woman.
I'm not savy in this kind of thing so I'd appreciate someone who knows exactly how to do it.
Let me know & I'll give my private email if necessary.
Thanks, Lisa

What kind of spy equipment are you talking about?

cell phone
I've heard it mentioned on here.
Too much info when I search on web
for it & I don't know one thing from
the other or what I'd need.

Try putting cell phone in your thread title. I know there are some good programs, but can't remember.

I knew that man was up to something no good! <img src="/ubbt/images/graemlins/mad.gif" alt="" /> <img src="/ubbt/images/graemlins/frown.gif" alt="" />

Tialyn, I hope you get all the answers to you questions. Does he know you are watching him very closely now?

Is he still trying to sell your house too?

I know there are little gadgets you can put in the car, that are sold at radio shack. If you go there you can ask them what is the best tracking equipment. If I remember right, in a previous post, you can get one for around $30.00 there.

I know this is hard for you. Who would have thought you would have to be spying on your own H. It's sad.
Be strong. Becareful that he doesn't find out what you are doing.

Blessings,
Lady

Lisa,

Bug cell ? not possible unless you know a hacker (duplicate his cell's SIM) or someone work in NSA ...

About spy equipment ... google spy equipment. GPS equipment would certainly handy.

Like what ladysheep has warned you ... think of the worst and think of what you want to do with the info.

-rh-

Thanks for the info lady.
I'll check out radio shack.

He started putting his cell in his bedroom
instead of the kitchen. I got cell bills
together last night & copied them at work
today. Going through them to set up time line
& hope to relate to stay in NC hotel.
I found xmas card & hotel receipt in his
truck. I guess he forgot about them when
I had to drive it. Good for me.
I haven't been able to get my hands on the
phone for more than a few minutes at the time.
He must not be too concerned or maybe he
just doesn't care anymore. He could believe
that he's free since he told me that he
doesn't want to be married anymore.
I don't know but the fact is that he
did things before he said that & for many years.
We are still married.
I thought of reminding him of that but Mom said
no. I agree. There doesn't seem to be any turning
back now anyway.
He got fair warning & has done all of these things
to hurt me.
I'm hanging tough though.
We will sell the house but not without him signing
something that states where the profits will go
and for support. PERIOD!

Check this GPS

for cell# try freebie one first

www.anywho.com
http://www22.verizon.com/utilities/rever...amp;x=0&y=0

then paying ones

http://www.locatecell.com/gpage.html

for background I had use US Search

-rh-

Wow, you are finding out alot already.

Was the X-mas card from OW?

Was the hotel reciept from around the time he went out of town for his so-called job hunt/interview?

Lady

I've tried to find something on electronic eavesdropping and surveillance on cell phones by way of a Google search but I can't find anything definitive. Frankly, I have the impression doing that is illegal. I know cloning a cell phone for that, or any, purpose is highly illegal.

A simple miniature, battery-powered, tape recorder to secrete somewhere (such as under a car seat or somewhere the wayward individual may go for a smoke break, a little “alone” time to make a call or two) would, I think, be a better bet.

There is also a book entitled Spying On Your Spouse by Kelly Squires that may be of use to you. Mr. Squires is an owner of a store that sells surveillance equipment of all kinds and got interested in the concept. If you want to get into electronic surveillance, you might check that book out. It's a little dated (1996), but it has lots of useful info. (Look for it on Half.com. You can get it there for about $1.00)

Good luck and my best wishes for a speedy resolution of your difficulties.

Hey,
thanks for all the replies. I'm working on things.
Wish didn't take so long.
I'm suspecting that he my be tapping our home phone.
Weird clicking noises that weren't there before.
Going to check out as much as I can before he gets
home tonight.
I still haven't gotten ahold of his cell.

Ladysheep,
The xmas card was from bestF, BF WIFE! & kids.
It contained the pics he brought in the house.
Then she sent a card addressed to both of us in mail.
UGH! What a B!
He stayed in the hotel the first night on the
job interview trip! Hotel in Charlotte, NC,
30-45mins from his buddy's house???!!!
He's acting so smug & packing like crazy.
He asked last night if he could go ahead & call
agent about selling the house. I'd said "whatever".
I know I can't stop that but I can gather evidence
to support his reasons & ensure my protection.
He's always finding a way to hurt me these days.
He's only nice to try to get something.
I see right through all of his bull.

Have you checked all of the unused jacks in your home?

Believer,

I'm going to check everything I can tonight.
Haven't been able to get to the one in his
bedroom. I'm wondering if he's only using it
now & then or using a remote device.
It seems to happen a lot at night
after he leaves & I'm talking to my Mom.
I even made a comment when we kept hearing it.
Mom had said something about it and I said
"Well, we'll have to see if his bug matches
up with mine!" LOL!!! I don't know it just
seems ironic that it started a few weeks ago
and sounds different than anything I've ever
heard before. We'll see.

Thanks again for the help.
All of this is so hard to believe and making
me crazy.

Unless he is exremely high tech, it is probably plugged into the jack in his bedroom if there is a recorder.