*deep sigh* ok guys I am at an all time low.........I am still hung up on the guy I was seeing...he is away visiting his parents. I had a conversation with him before he left. I told him how I felt about him and how our continued friendship was affecting me because I had feelings for him I was having to hide. I did mention that had he actually "tried" out things as a relationship he might have seen it differently. The second time he freaked out on me i had made a match.com profile for giggle and he popped up as a 97% match for me (he had a profile before I met him and no it's not how we met). I told him if we were such a match for each other and he didn't want to be with me he seriously needed to re-evaluate what he wants because we had great chemistry and we always have a great time together. He really took those words in and the man can make a seriously guilty face. Before we said goodnight he thanked me for the christmas gift i got him and i thanked him for the one he gave me. I did some rearraging in my vehicle for the long drive back home. When I pulled out to drive away I noticed he didn't go home. He walked right past his apartment complex and kept walking down the street looking like he was in seriously deep thought. The nexk week (he was gone home for christmas by this point) I hadn't logged in match.com for awhile I logged in and his profile is gone. WTF is going on. I tried to kind of move on after that but have met more than disappointing prospects of men. And I still have feelings for him. I took my profile off match.com as I just don't have the will try try right now. WHats a girl to do?

Any input from you guys would be super helpful.

try door # 2. . . . the odds are always in favor of switching from the first door selected. . .

As much as you want to believe the numbers on a web page, real life is telling you otherwise. . .

first the size of the dating pool is about 3 percent of the population. . . . so don't think that its going to be easy. however the right person is out there, you just don't know when and where and how you will meet him. . .

keep looking. . .

wiftty

Ah...the dating guy on the dating site!

Last year I found out xbf2 was on a dating site...the PA guy. My best friend said something wasn't right when suddenly outta the blue after his desire to commit to a serious relationship w/me, he backs out. She is a computer hacker queen and can find out anything on anybody. Smart and beautiful! (unlike my xh's ow/w...my best friend IS a real model with a masters' degree)...

She found out within 30 min. that R had a profile up there. So she put up a profile for me that she wrote in about another 30 minutes...along with some digital pics she had of me...one in a bikini under dunn's river falls..

As an experiment, she put it up online. We waited. Maybe a few days I remember? R called and was FUMING! HOW DARE ME...and to let me know first before the call, he winked at me.

I think u should let him chase you. You told him...now let the man do the man's work. You relax, sit back...and let this man know you do have a profile up just as he does. If he cares, he will make you stop! Ask to take it down and he will remove his as well.

I am not into this digital thing. Toooo wierd for me. I want old fashioned dates and rejections!

haha peachy you crack me up.

peachy I think a big part of the hurt was that we were friends before we decided to see each other...he put the moves on me.....we were seeing each other for a month and everything seemed to be progressing towards a relationship. Then one night everything was fine and he just spooked for no reason. I don't think I will every figure it out.