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#1550188 01/01/06 12:33 AM
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Happy New Year Everyone!!

Just got in from shooting off some fireworks with DS - We had a great evening - played Scene It Disney! watched a movie & danced and sang til Midnight!!

I just wanted to wish everyone best wishes for the coming year. Thanks to everyone for their continued support and advice.

No matter what comes our way, we will make it through!!

Love to all!!!!

Kim & DS


D-Day May 14th, 2005
Married 16 Years
DS age 8
6 months Plan A
Plan B 10-11-05, H moved back in June 2007, Very False Recovery.
2nd Day-Day 7/7/08 Kicked WH Out.
Plan B for my sanity
"Enjoy the little things, for one day you may look back and realize they were the big things." Robert Brault
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Happy New Year to you, too, KIM and DS!


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Happy New Year Kim

my first one alone in a long long time. Doesn't feel so good.

tdr


BS me 38 WH 34 OW 28 DDay-03/17/04 M 10 yrs DS 10, DD, 7 OW and WH broke up Aug 07 WH home ...Nothings changed no remorse I hate everyminute of him being home I want out!!!!
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Lonely here too.

But Happy New Year! tdr, Kim, and LM.

-AD


A guy, 50. Divorced in 2005.
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Happy New Year Kim and everyone ......

I hope this year is a better one for all of us


Hurting


BS (Me)- 47 WH - 46
Married- 24 yrs
3 children 15,19,22
2 grandsons
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Yes happy new year to everyone.

it cant be any worse than 05

Cliff


BS (me) 43
WS (her) 41
Discovered A 10/19
NC established 10/25
withdrawal ended 11/18 (the worst of it anyway)
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I was SUPPOSED to go to a New Year's Eve party with grown-ups. A neighbor friend said she'd watch DD. So we went to her house to hang out for a little before the party. DD was so upset and didn't want to go to bed. So, we ended up coming back home. She slept blissfully in her own crib, and I drank a glass of wine. Went to bed before 11. Gee, I'm such a party animal!

Seriously, though, here's to '06... it's GOT to be better than '05. I was thinking about this last night... 2005 brought the highest high (DD) and the lowest low (WH) that I have ever had in my life. Such a rollercoaster of a year.


(Formerly SadMommy05) BS, 29 (me) XH, 27 DD, 1 M, 2001 high school sweethearts OW, 36, divorcee, "we have a friendship people can't understand" WH left out of the blue 9/5/2005 I filed 11/1/2005 D finalized 6/20/06 XH and OW married 1/6/07. Ugh!
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AD & tdr - Hi - sorry your New Year's Eve wasn't so great. I am just thankful I have DS - tdr, did your kids get into bed early? This is the first year DS has stayed up past midnight!

Cliff & Hurting - That's the way I see it. This year is going to be better one way or the other. I love my H, but if he doesn't come home then it is his loss.

Sad - Hang in there! 2006 will bring better things -

Kim


D-Day May 14th, 2005
Married 16 Years
DS age 8
6 months Plan A
Plan B 10-11-05, H moved back in June 2007, Very False Recovery.
2nd Day-Day 7/7/08 Kicked WH Out.
Plan B for my sanity
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Hey happy New Year!

I am BACK AT THE HOSPITAL...BEEN HERE ALL DAY DARN IT...

Useless negative studies ordered (sorry docs here) by some docs who order WAAAAAAY too much tests...both are hospitalists...and either they don't feel comfy diagnosing or else they like to rack up bills for the pts...

Anyway, here doing yet another negative study.

I have kimberly, scene it harry potter. We love it! DS beat me at it last time.

We need to get our ds' together to play!


me:37 BS; s:7; xh:38; OW:26;eloped w/OW 1 wk after D: 12/29/03. OC born 3/17/04. Happy! Blessed to be the mother of a wonderful son..great profession..Life's good!
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Hi Peachy - UGh. Having to work today.....Just as well, the weather is getting yucky it seems.

I was just thinking about us getting together --- What are you doing tomorrow?? Maybe meet for lunch or something with our DS's or perhaps next Saturday??

Kim


D-Day May 14th, 2005
Married 16 Years
DS age 8
6 months Plan A
Plan B 10-11-05, H moved back in June 2007, Very False Recovery.
2nd Day-Day 7/7/08 Kicked WH Out.
Plan B for my sanity
"Enjoy the little things, for one day you may look back and realize they were the big things." Robert Brault

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