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okay, so i have told him that i am willing and ready to work on our marriage and I am being sweet and telling him that I will be there for him and meet his EN's. BTW - he does not live with us any longer.
And now I am supposed to expose him? Isn't that sort of sneaky and won't that make him resent me even more?
I am still confused about plan A.
Advice needed.
Separated: 12/18/2005
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Alison,
AS confusing as it sounds and as hard as it is exposure is something that has to be done. Do it quickly and get it over with. There are certain people it must be exposed to immediately.
Yes you are right that it will upset him but it must be done. His anger will subside quickly so be prepared for a verbal attack right off the bat. He may even try to turn it around and make it sound that the whole thing is your fault. Expect it. So just expose then sit back and be ready for what he is going to throw at you. But remember, it won't last long.
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could someone email me what plan A/B is??? im confused...
dated since 95
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2kids 7&3
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Hi, did anyone email it to you? I am looking for what plan a & b are too. I also have a baby, was cheated on & he is now gone. I want my family back!!
Please let me know if you have the answer.
Good luck to you & me.
SP67
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SP - Go to the general Questions 2 board. There is so much more support there... There are many links to Plan A - I am just learning the true nity gritty about it - but I have been in it to s sense ( my version) without knowing fully what it was... Check out the thread titled Plan A tips and musings" and also "the carrot and stick of Plan A" -- Both can be found on the general questions board...
My advice - REALLY read up on Plan A - I got the gist of it, but not fully and now I finally getting it - so we will see how it works...
From now on go to General Questions 2 - there is more traffic and great advice there...
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