I think i made a mistake i am not sure i was just standing my groud in my OP. I had to go to the funeral home tonight a friend of the family passed away over the weekend. Very sad only 24yrs old. Well about a week ago i posted on here about this girl who was saying things about her and my husband before we got married. I've ignored everything she has told me but tonight was the icing on top of the cake.
I walk in and there she is. She sees me and her and her friend begin to talk about me. Laughing and starring and my mom noticed it too and my mom doesnt believe a word of what this girl is saying. So im talking to a couple of people that I know and she sends her friend over to ask how im doing! Asking about my husband where is he and blah blah blah. I said we are doing great never been better and he isnt home yet. I wanted to tell her friend to relay and message to leave us alone but I didnt want to cause a scene in a funeral home. So i just kept talking and this girl finally walks away. Then as im talking to my friend i notice this other lady starring at me, im like WTF you know?
SO i just got back home here and I have her screen name and I shouldnt stoop to her level but i have to say i did. Shame on me! So I am IM her and said....I just want you to know that i dont believe a f*cking thing you are talking about my husband and you doing stuff. I want you to leave us alone I said maybe im being naive but all you are is the town ****** and that is all you will ever be...So leave us the [censored] alone....I know i shouldnt have done that shame on me! Phew, i just wanted to get this off my chest...Now i feel better!

((((Oneday)))) That was tough. You did great at ignoring the first one. I'm sorry they made you feel so uncomfortable.

Now, you need to block her screen name. You also need to change your settings to not allow people not on your list to IM you. She may use another name to try to contact you.

I know you probably want to be fussed at, but I so understand where you are coming from. I am proud you didn't do it at the funeral home.

He's coming home soon and it is YOU he wants to see. It is YOU he loves.

blessings

Thanks! Although I feel terrible about the whole thing. I did block her and i deleted her from my buddy list. I know for a fact she has 2 screen names but they can be created so easily. I just wish this girl would find something better to do then cause trouble. My mom was furious at her, she was ready to go and tell her off! What a way to start off the new Year.
I cant wait for him to be home. For me to be in HIS arms!! Those big army muscles.....GOSH i cant wait! I think thats what i really needed to do but i feel bad for taking my anger out on her shame on me!!! O well she deserved it...I guess i told her exactly what she was and always will be.