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STBX gave wants a "booty call" before we go to mediation. What do you think?
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She wants to insure that the right head is making the decisions
Divorced:
"Never shelter anyone from the realities of their decisions": Noodle
You believe easily what you hope for ernestly
Infidelity does not kill marriages, the lying does
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<img src="/ubbt/images/graemlins/grin.gif" alt="" /> My thoughts exactly. But then again Cy, It could be my new haircut?
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HOW 'BOUT THEM STEELERS!
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I am not sure about this, but I think that you two having SF would negate any adultery charge pending. Again, I am not sure. If my WH wanted a booty call, I would assume he was going to court to say we reconciled since his A so his adultery doesn't count. (But I tend to think on the paranoid side)
Me-41 BS (FWS) DH-41 WS (FBS) 2DD's- 10 and 12 Married 15 years Separated for 2 years after my A Reconciled for 1 year before his A D-day for his A 8/23/05 WH moved out 9/16/05 Divorce final 1/23/07 Affair ended or month or so later My Story
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I don't know what state you're in, but if it's a no fault stated, adultry doesn't matter.
Anyway....wouldn't that be emotionally hard? I know it would be for me, unless I really didn't care.
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I am not sure about this, but I think that you two having SF would negate any adultery charge pending. Again, I am not sure. If my WH wanted a booty call, I would assume he was going to court to say we reconciled since his A so his adultery doesn't count. (But I tend to think on the paranoid side) This is correct. In fact, in my first marriage, my attorney actually advised me to do this, because then when we divorced eventually, my exhusband wouldn't be able to use his- as he had consented to sex with me after the affair and his knowledge of it.
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