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H's and OW's company (we're in different states thank God) is cutting back on staff. H's job is secure, but OW's, not so much. Good possibility she may lose it. If so then I can let go 100%. As long as she is with the company they might have contact, H could even be her boss someday...though he says he would never put us in that situation.<P>I know it's awful to wish bad things for people, but I'm human and I don't expect anyone to agree with my feeling, but possibly you might understand my giddiness over this matter.<P>------------------<BR>Joan
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I understand 100% if I were in your shoes I would start to do a dance, the highland fling I believe would be most fitting !!<BR>Jenny<P>------------------<BR>Where have all the cowboys gone ?<BR>Paula Cole<P><BR>
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Well ............. we could always look at this as "career change o' direction" for the OW. Perhaps it will be the best thing that ever happened to her!<P>Whoa. I'm almost giddy today.
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Joanie<BR>Don't you feel even a little bit of guilt over feeling that way.<BR>It would be great to have that door closed and locked.<BR>You deserve to have some peace!!!!!!!
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Hi joanie,<BR>Someone once said on here, It is easier for our Hs to get over the OW then it is for us. What a true true statement. I am still dealing with that too. I certainly know how you feel. I have expressed my thoughts on here before, I'm not proud of the things I say sometimes, but, I'm not sorry either. I think it has alot to do with control that both us and our H have to have. A control of having each other totally. I will keep my fingers crossed for you. <BR>Almost ![[Linked Image from marriagebuilders.com]](http://www.marriagebuilders.com/forum/images/icons/smile.gif) <P><BR>-----------<BR>TIME
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Joanie,<P>Thank God and I am happy for you. Envious too. ![[Linked Image from marriagebuilders.com]](http://www.marriagebuilders.com/forum/images/icons/wink.gif) I only wish the OW would be removed from where my husband works. I would consider it God answering a prayer. So PTL.<P>That news of yours helped make my day. <P>------------------<BR>God bless you and all of us.<P>Samantha<BR>
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I knew ya'll would understand...thanks.<P>jen...I'll dance if/when it happens...you bet!<P>Maya...hope you're feeling better. "Career change" is a good way to see it.<P>wassy...as always your words comfort, I hope I do get to lock that door tightly.<P>AH...I too say/think things that I'm not proud of. I'm so glad I can come here and be understood by people who know that this is how we heal.<P>Sam...hope OW leaves your H's workplace. I don't know how I could do it if H saw OW everyday.<P>Thnks again ya'll!<P><P>------------------<BR>Joan
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