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Dr. Harley's plan works! For those of you who followed my story, you will be happy to know that after 9 months of separation, my husband and I are back together as of tonight! <img src="/ubbt/images/graemlins/laugh.gif" alt="" />

We are both going in with eyes wide open, knowing that we need a solid plan - and we will continue with the Marriage Builders plan.

I am almost completed my training to become a Marriage and Family Counsellor, and now my dear husband has decided to train, too, so that we can share with others the things we've learned that have healed what seemed a doomed marriage just a short while ago.

I think the trick is to make the committment to do EVERYTHING, the whole plan, not just the parts that I felt like doing. I refused to behave in ways that served me and not my husband, or that served him and not me. I began to follow the Policy of Joint Agreement, even though he was not yet reciprocating. It is so respectful that it deposits very large Love Units over a very short period of time! This is the key, I'm sure of it!

I believe we have a purer, wiser, healthier love now than we ever had before. It is like a whole new marriage.

I am very happy, and I thank God for bringing this opportunity into my life through Dr. Harley. I pray that my husband and I may be able to coach couples through the pain and back to love, too.

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I always believed it would. I just gave the HNHN book as a wedding shower gift and hope it can make their lives even better than they imagined.
Congratulations.


It was a marriage that never really started.
H: Conflict Avoider, NPD No communication skills (Confirmed by MC) Me: Enabler
Sep'd 12/01, D'd 08/03.
My joys and the light of my life: DD 11, DD 9
*Approach life and situations from the point of love - not from fear.*
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Thanks, I really appreciate the encouragement and support I've found here.


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