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What would happen if you showed her a copy of your post?
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WH cheated in corporate workplace for many years. He moved out and filed in summer 2008.
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Has there been any couples counseling? Is it continuing?

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You COULD counsel with the Harleys... the $ is well worth it. Also, you say that you aren't meeting her needs either, can you pick one or two things that make big lovebank deposits for her and just do those one time and see if it helps? I don't know, I'm in the same boat sometimes, is this stuff universal after an A? Are people who have A's just fundamentally self-centered and selfish? Or are we all?


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For those of you who bothered to post - thanks. I'll take your words to heart.

We'll just kill this thread here. Bad idea I guess.

Thanks.


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Why is this allowed to happen?


Me BS - 44
FWW- 42
EA for 4 years with fellow employee
became PA in Jan 04 - I knew of this one.
Seperated/ Divorced July 03
2 sons 14 & 12
D Day -6/26/04- PA in 1998 for about 1 year- I had NO idea.
recovery and reconciliation began 6/27/04

Remarried 2/18/06

My story?? Click below.

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