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Please post the url to his blog. It could provide us with some insight as to what he is feeling.
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Are you still bringing it up? If so, I think let it lie for a bit. Don't mention it again tonight. I am sure he is probably trying to get his story straight in his head. He knows what he has done is wrong. I hope so, anyway. What kind of chaplin will he be if he is an advocate of adultury?
Just keep your eyes and ears open for anymore proof.
Do NOT tell him you are going to expose him.
I'm praying for you, Soul
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i doubt id have the opportunity to bring it up again tonite anyway since he left and i dont think he will be back. i dont know where he is going to go but he is very very stubborn and if he wants to leave he will do it whether he has the keys or not
today when i talked with him i said that both of us have fallen away from our faith and i hope that he will return to God as i am trying to do, and he said that his faith has been just fine. i said our God does not condone adultery and he just rolled his eyes
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he just walked back in again;
i dont know if this is right or ok or not but if you think it is just pray that he doesn't leave for tonite. ive been praying that he'll get tired and just go to sleep and at least not walk out of here tonite. i dont know why but i feel like that is important. maybe it is just my fear of being alone at nite speaking.
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Of course it is ok to pray that. I'll pray that for you, too.
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he keeps asking me where the keys are and i have yet to tell him, so he said "i dont know what you think you're accomplishing but you're such a sack of sh*t"
my instinct is to not make it any easier for him to run but then i just wonder if he is going to resent me even more for this
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Tell him you have not touched his keys. Ask him to watch a movie with you. Maybe he'll relax.
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Soul,
Just checking in with you. How ya doing?
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he keeps asking me where the keys are and i have yet to tell him, so he said "i dont know what you think you're accomplishing but you're such a sack of sh*t" Soul, this is NOT acceptable. When did it become acceptable to you for a person to speak to you this way? Particularly someone who made sacred vows and covenants with you? If you don't begin to show yourself some respect, he will continue to disrespect you. Boundaries!!!
"No power in the 'verse can stop me."
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