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Just wanted to let you all know I have an appt. with Steve on the 10th...

Please pray he can help me ....... I wish I could have afforded this earlier in this mess but I guess better late than never ...


BS (Me)- 47 WH - 46
Married- 24 yrs
3 children 15,19,22
2 grandsons
D-Day- June17, 2005 while I was 1400 miles away
WH living with OW since July 05
WH filed divorce papers Dec. 22, 05
Divorced granted June 28, 06
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Ok I had to fill out the lovebanks thing... I have done that and submited it.....

I hope I am not to late with all of this ......


BS (Me)- 47 WH - 46
Married- 24 yrs
3 children 15,19,22
2 grandsons
D-Day- June17, 2005 while I was 1400 miles away
WH living with OW since July 05
WH filed divorce papers Dec. 22, 05
Divorced granted June 28, 06
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It's NEVER too late!

Example...FWXH and I reconciled 7 mos. "post" D!, 2.5 years "post" D-Day and separation!
Not the ideal but my family is whole again, so who cares!

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Shugah,

Thanks I needed to hear that ....

I have read your story and I am praying that is how mine turns out......


BS (Me)- 47 WH - 46
Married- 24 yrs
3 children 15,19,22
2 grandsons
D-Day- June17, 2005 while I was 1400 miles away
WH living with OW since July 05
WH filed divorce papers Dec. 22, 05
Divorced granted June 28, 06
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Hurting,

From the few times I have spoken to SteveH, I know it will be helpful to you...it's good that you will have a chance to speak to him and have his take on your situation... and nothing is ever too late...

I am sorry to learn about the new developments....

In this whole ordeal, for me, the biggest challenge is how to cope with 'actions' that affect\impact us but don't control, and how to focus on doing things that we do control.....

You have come a long way, Hurting, keep doing the best you can... whatever comes your way, trust yourself enough to know that you will 'get through it'.... as you have so far!

in the meantime, take care.


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Luna,

Thank you for the kinds words..... I am hoping Steve has something that can help me.....


BS (Me)- 47 WH - 46
Married- 24 yrs
3 children 15,19,22
2 grandsons
D-Day- June17, 2005 while I was 1400 miles away
WH living with OW since July 05
WH filed divorce papers Dec. 22, 05
Divorced granted June 28, 06

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