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OK, I can cover the Tampa Bay area and possibly the greater Orlando area including Orange and Seminole County, Florida.
(Like if a WS is having a weekend away or convention near the attractions)


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Heck all I want is someone to make the happy couple to distrust each other.....

Is there a way to do this???? You all know they live together and are sporting all over town... And of course I may be divorced next week but hey throwing a wrench in the affair to bring it to a hault would work for me....

Anyone got any ideas?????


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Married- 24 yrs
3 children 15,19,22
2 grandsons
D-Day- June17, 2005 while I was 1400 miles away
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Here's the link. The discussion for those interested can pick up over there. I suggest you use the same name as you did on MB to reduce confusion. This should keep MB from getting too nervous.

http://p097.ezboard.com/baffairbusters

Sign up for ezboard and then apply to the affairbusters board and I'll let you in. We'll set up moderators once we get some people in there.


Me (BS) 36 FWW 35 Married 5/25/91 DS-7 DD - Born 11/8/05 !!! PA #1 12/1996 PA #2 4/01 to 1/04 NC 1/04 There are people in the world so hungry, that God cannot appear to them except in the form of bread. - Mahatma Gandhi Don't think exposure is a good idea? Go here... From Harley Himself
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Bump.


Me (BS) 36 FWW 35 Married 5/25/91 DS-7 DD - Born 11/8/05 !!! PA #1 12/1996 PA #2 4/01 to 1/04 NC 1/04 There are people in the world so hungry, that God cannot appear to them except in the form of bread. - Mahatma Gandhi Don't think exposure is a good idea? Go here... From Harley Himself
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Fluke - Can I do Fort Worth area ?? (by the way, I loved the Duck Season, Rabbit Season !!!!)

Best regards - Carnation

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You're in Carnation.

Just go over to the other board and sign in so that you're on the list.

At least SOMEBODY got the duck season joke! I feel better now. <img src="/ubbt/images/graemlins/smile.gif" alt="" />


Me (BS) 36 FWW 35 Married 5/25/91 DS-7 DD - Born 11/8/05 !!! PA #1 12/1996 PA #2 4/01 to 1/04 NC 1/04 There are people in the world so hungry, that God cannot appear to them except in the form of bread. - Mahatma Gandhi Don't think exposure is a good idea? Go here... From Harley Himself
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WOW,
Sign me up for NorhtEast and New England!!!

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Fluke, Having problems signing up. Am I the only one who this is happening to ?? apparently.

Save Ft. Worth for me. I am really having a hard time loggin on. darn it...

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Car -
First sign up for a free acct with EZboard.

Then go to the link above and request admittance.

Or is that what you already did?


Me (BS) 36 FWW 35 Married 5/25/91 DS-7 DD - Born 11/8/05 !!! PA #1 12/1996 PA #2 4/01 to 1/04 NC 1/04 There are people in the world so hungry, that God cannot appear to them except in the form of bread. - Mahatma Gandhi Don't think exposure is a good idea? Go here... From Harley Himself
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I'm in for southwestern Colorado... now if I can just figure out the EZ board thing!


Me - BS 34 WH - 39 Married 9/17/05 (2nd marraiges for both) Friends since childhood EA - 8/05-10/05 D-day: 10/19/05 (I moved out) Moved back in together: 12/7/05 I moved back out 2/22/06 due to emotional abuse and very mild physical abuse 7 children between ages of 6 months and 15. I moved back in on 11/25/06. We are still each in IC...
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Yes, in fact I have ( I thought) signed up twice !! I keep getting an invalid password, although it is correct. I get a message that something has been sent to my e mail address, but no mail.

When that kept happening, I used another screen name, signed up again - same problem. Invalid password, nothing being sent to my e mail account.

Have no clue as to what I have done wrong, twice !!!

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I had some issues getting in at first but it finally worked. I had to request my PW and finally got the email.

Hmmmm. Anybody?


Me (BS) 36 FWW 35 Married 5/25/91 DS-7 DD - Born 11/8/05 !!! PA #1 12/1996 PA #2 4/01 to 1/04 NC 1/04 There are people in the world so hungry, that God cannot appear to them except in the form of bread. - Mahatma Gandhi Don't think exposure is a good idea? Go here... From Harley Himself
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I'm in SE VA and I have 2 cameras!!!


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I'm in SE VA and I have 2 cameras!!!

You appear to have all the qualifications. Feel free to sign up! <img src="/ubbt/images/graemlins/smile.gif" alt="" />


Me (BS) 36 FWW 35 Married 5/25/91 DS-7 DD - Born 11/8/05 !!! PA #1 12/1996 PA #2 4/01 to 1/04 NC 1/04 There are people in the world so hungry, that God cannot appear to them except in the form of bread. - Mahatma Gandhi Don't think exposure is a good idea? Go here... From Harley Himself
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Doing it!


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I got an address for you to check out if you're in the Rockies. Wouldn't it be nice to have people around during an affair that do not enable, turn a blind eye or don't seem to care about morality. Does everybody get a superman shirt with a big AB on front?

Actually, I think you guys ought to have a trail run in Oklahoma. Hurting could use a little muscle.


Grapes are versatile. Grapes can be sour, sweet, sublime as wine and fabulous even when old and dried out.

Me: BS
XCH: Clueless
2-DS: Bigger than me
1-DD: Now also bigger than me!

5/6: Personally served CH with divorce papers
6/6: CH F? wants to time to see if M can be saved
7/6: FCH reenters our lives to work on marriage but secretly signs papers to start divorce...what's that about?
Mediation set for November
Final dissolution in January 2007.
2008 and beyond: Life goes on...
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Does everybody get a superman shirt with a big AB on front?

Do we, Fluke, do we????

If we DO, then sign me up. You & Flukette knock on the door, sickofthis1961 can drive the getaway car, I'll videotape from afar, and Lost can chase 'em down if they start running!!! And if they run for the Lansing city line, I'll get the Wonderings on the cell.


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OC 8-05 - no contact
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Regional Coordinators:

North Central: The Flukes and Mr. Wondering.
South Western: Longhorn

It's gonna take more than just us. Step in people - fill out an app. Take 'em flowers and take their pictures. Imagine their surprise when the roses arrive (along with a 230# buddy of their BS who's NOT smiling.) <img src="/ubbt/images/graemlins/grin.gif" alt="" />

U all realize this has already been going on, ya know?!?!?! Not MB sanctioned of course but a few of us have done the stake out, served RO's, served as the 3rd parties, talked to other BS' not on MB, housed the BS and family, loaned them funs, provided clothing, food and shelter for their families, provided phones, gave lots of time via phone, e-mail and even in person. Once I even recall getting Scotland Yard involved when a BS was in trouble. There's more stories here on this board, just gotta ask. <img src="/ubbt/images/graemlins/wink.gif" alt="" />

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Aloha Orchid,

Thanks for posting. I assumed it had been done but has it been done or is it being done in any type of organized fashion? Is the delivery of flowers or pizza a good idea? How was the system undertaken or was it kinda on a per request basis then set up by email?

Do you think if we have a referral system then we can post it as an alternative before the BS even considers seeking it?

Are we wasting are time trying to organize something when we can just wait for the BS's to request it...I mean really how many BS's are going to be needing me in the Detroit area...One every 2 years of so? Are our energies being misplaced? (It's not like we want to set up some eleborate network just a system (off of MB) where we know who to contact, directly by email depending on where the BS in need is without relying on the poster to happen across the post or be on MB that day, week or even month.

Whatcha think?

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Someone named Truehearted applied. Anyone know who that is?


"It is not the critic who counts; not the man who points out how the strong man stumbles, or where the doer of deeds could have done them better. The credit belongs to the man who is actually in the arena.." Theodore Roosevelt

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