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Posted a couple of weeks ago- it appears I am in plan b with my husband as he is now living with OW 14 years his junior and has now introduced her to his friends and family.He only knew he for 2 weeks before the affair started and i found out 5 weeks later. Decided to go NC to protect myself as everytime I have contact with him he gets angry or I get upset when I here things like he is acting like a teenager kissing and touching her in public. I have been reading posts on this site but have not read any where that plan b has actually brought WS back to his wife.Does plan b or NC actually work?
ME-WS 45
HIM-WH 48
US- 5 GROWN UP CHILDREN
OW-34, 2 SMALL CHILDREN
DD- 28/10/05, THREW HIM OUT
MOVED IN WITH OW 2 WEEKS LATER
OW-34, 2 CHILDREN, 6 & 8 YRS
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Plan B works, but only after a good Plan A. That is where you need to spend your efforts.
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Someone else said that, but how do you initiate plan A when your H is living with someone else and you aren't on friendly terms. I truly love my husband we have been together 27 years but I really have no clue how to get started but have read about the basic principles.
ME(BS)-45
HIM(WH)-48
5 grown up children, 2 granchildren due August 06
OW-35, 2 children 8yrs and 6yrs
D- Day 28 october 2005, WH left, lived with OW 2 weeks before moving into apartment-affair continued they have lived together since january 2nd.
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