Did you have a boy or a girl?

I'm sorry, I can't remember.

I had a Girl she is less than 2months old... I am of course exhausted lol.

Congratulations! I hope things are going well for you!

I am doing ok just having a hard time going back to work, I really do not want to but know I should to get my bills back on track having a newborn is very expensive.

So has your baby started with the teething yet?

I am still at the point were she is just starting the coos and goos and sometimes belly laughing.

How did you weight loss go? I am still stuck with 20pounds that needs to come off or I will have no clothes to wear to work LOL

She has been teething since 1 month, but no teeth yet!

She can sit up now, and loves to screech, and laugh.

She's my joy!!!

I think I have lost all of the baby weight although I can tell you my body is not the same!! I worked out so much before I had her, I have a hard time working out now days.

STBXH bought me a treadmill for Christmas though. I am suppose to get it this weekend. Hopefully I can start using it soon and get back in shape.

I still can't fit all my clothes, it's getting there.

ok you are killing me I thought for sure by the time my baby was 6months old i would be able to fit my prepregnancy clothes.

I was not in shape that much just before i I got pregnant. I was in great shape just a year and a half ago

I had a pretty flat stomach prior to having the baby. Now, my stomach is much flabbier!

I think the stress is helping me lose weight a little more though.

Yes the infidelity diet I know it well.

I know that is hard when I am happier I tend to eat more and when I am depressed I do not eat or sleep.

LOL Think about it all the in shape super models are miserable. (My little head fantasy)

Thats just my rational because I look back on my pics when I was my most depressed and lonely and wow I was in great shape body wise.

Hi Cordelia, I just wanted to say I am impressed with what you wrote when you wrote that you didn't even want to hear from OWs.

Love it. That's what we need are strong women.

I came here by accident. I was reading on the other site. I like to read their posts. I guess I'm trying to understand them. Anyway they were all up in arms over Lynn's post. So I found out they were talking about here and read what Lynn wrote and then YOUR posts hahaha.

The OW are really warped. I find it so hard to understand how they can be so uncaring and then on the other hand be so full of themselves. They are very selfish women.

And the hate they feel for the wives. I wonder if the roles were reversed how they would act. They blame the wives and husbands and then protray themselves as innocent victims.

Never do they see the "part" that they played.
My husband cheated and fathered a child. That woman never thought about me until she realized that my husband was not going to leave me..then she started in on me.

We have NC with the OC. Both of our choices. I do not plan on spending the next 18 years seeing her. We will pay the cs and our life goes on. My stupid h learned a valuable lesson and will pay for the rest of his life but so will the "innocent" woman who KNEW the man she was screwing was married and had a family and did not care.

Anyway, I just wanted to write you and say thank you for being strong and standing up and speaking your mind.

Really Savannah Which of my posts?