WH had S10 overnight, and I asked for him to be home in the morning, but didn't specify when. I had an appointment to keep this morning, so off I go into town. On the way there, I pass WH going the other way. My cell rings, but I can't answer because I'm driving, so I just keep going. When I park the car outside the place of my appointment, who pulls up behind me but WH with S10! HE FOLLOWED ME! FOLLOWED ME INTO TOWN TO THE PLACE OF MY APPOINTMENT (with the shrink, no less)! OK so WH had somewhere to be himself in half an hour (he was going to see a movie - I know that AND the movie he was going to see; funny how much info he manages to pack into a simple convo about our son) but couldn't he ring again? Did he have to follow me into town? Was it necessary?

Honestly, this was freaky. But I really couldn't say anything because he had somewhere to be shortly and obviously had to leave S10 somewhere. Still... I don't know.

I was TOLD Plan B would be hard, I just assumed it'd be hard to stick to, not hard to enforce on the WS, you know?

Did you actually reply at all RT to WH when he was having this convo??
Sounds like he was needing his RT fix <img src="/ubbt/images/graemlins/smile.gif" alt="" /> <img src="/ubbt/images/graemlins/smile.gif" alt="" /> <img src="/ubbt/images/graemlins/smile.gif" alt="" /> any excuse will do <img src="/ubbt/images/graemlins/grin.gif" alt="" />

LOL! Nah, basically I just said stuff like, "I've got an appointment, can't you have him for an hour?" And he said he couldn't, because yada yada yada, I said, No woz, I'll take him in with me, seeya later. (S10 wasn't in the session with me, BTW! Just the waiting room.:))

Don't know about the RT fix though... I find it hard to get my head around the fact that he might feel this way when he says that he considered our marriage over the minute he walked out the door, does NOT want to reconcile, has a woman who "makes him happy", and on and on and on ad nauseam.