I have felt like I didn't get the last word in when it comes to the owX2 in my WH's EA. I thought I'd never be able to get a good night's sleep until I let them know that I'm not one to be messed with. I felt that it would help to keep them from trying to make a run for my old man again. I scared the junk out of 'em when I caught them in my van with my H. I was very King Kong-esque, know what I mean? But, even still, I just couldn't shake the feeling that it just wasn't enough. I wanted EVERYONE in my H's shop to know that they'd be in a world of Sh*t if any one of them ever tried to "prey upon my obviously weak and vulnerable husband" ever again. So, here's what I did:
I called up our local rock station (which also happens to be the one they're tuned into at my H's shop) and made a very special request. This song was dedicated to the two scrubs in question (yes, I had them announce their names on the air-albeit first names only...) From ----'s wife.
The url to this song's video is as follows:
http://www.allmusicvideocodes.com/l/limp_bizkit/break_stuff.html
Now, I know that it's quite the extreme song, not the nicest in the world, but it "got the led out"

It probably didn't accomplish a darned thing, and there will be those out here who will tell you why it was the wrong thing to do...but I like your style. <img src="/ubbt/images/graemlins/smile.gif" alt="" />

well, it seems to have worked, So far so good anyway. These chasers of married folks need to learn that someday they may encounter someone's wife, who just happens to exhibit IRATENESS when she catches scum trying to latch onto her husband. Maybe the potential for cans of whoop-a*s to be opened is incentive enough to convince losers like themselves to look for love ELSEWHERE. MARRIED IS MARRIED. Unhappilly or not. I am absolutely NOT a violent person. However, the desire to rip those girls limb from limb was burning in me when I rolled up on them hanging out with my husband. I didn't threaten them at that point. I let Limp Bizkit do that for me. Now, instead of them thinking I'm just some crazy woman, they know that I am a crazy woman that MEANS BUSINESS. So far, one of them has quit her job. She just happens to be the one who wrote my H a little note w/directions to her house, along with an invitation to "stalk" her, and a picture of her 6 year old daughter. These are just the things I HAVE FOUND. My husband never got a chance to go out to her place because I found her little note the very day she gave it to him. I went out there, though. At least I know where she lives, EXACTLY WHERE SHE LIVES, and HE doesn't. So, since I started taking my H to work every day and showing up for lunch every day, she must've had enough. She QUIT! Days after "the song".
One down, ONE TO GO!!! The one that's still at his shop STEERS CLEAR of him, now. Even still, I'd feel a lot better if SHE would quit, too. No getting fired, she'd get unemployment, then. She is a husband-chasing slut, she doesn't deserve unemployment. She wouldn't be worthy of the sweat off my balls if she were dying of thirst---and I don't even have any. They're both scuzz-bags, and I hope I DID scare the crap out of them. Maybe it'll save someone like me the trouble of having them chase HER husband. Maybe...just maybe...they've learned a very important lesson. Don't chase married men, lest you should lose your front teeth?

wow, I got a virus alert from that website!

i have started working out at the gym and working around my house doing an extreme makeover -- painted almost every room in the house, laid cermamic tile, spent 6 hours staining the deck, raked up 36 bags of leaves, etc... nothing like manual labor to ease some stress. it always makes me feel better to accomplish something...although i do have my times of sitting on the couch like a sack of potatoes.

i have caught him at OW's house -- right after OC was born... let me tell you, if i would have had someplace to take my kids i would have immediately packed his stuff and put it in the front yard... but i wouldn't put them through that. i agree totally with the wanting to tear them limb from limb -- i only cry when i am angry so lots of tears have been shed over the past 3 years. but i am finally strong enough (i think) now that i am not going to deal with this nonsense any more and he knows that I DON'T NEED HIM.

today will be a better day. <img src="/ubbt/images/graemlins/smile.gif" alt="" />