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MelodyLane #1557838 01/09/06 03:17 PM
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Ladies, gentleman, "others":

This thread has not authorized to be an "idiotville" thread.

There are restrictions against this kind of thread and financial and criminal penalties will apply.

Please cease and "decist" the innane posts (couldn't help that quoatation (it slipped) or there will be severe repercussions to follow.

While I didn't author the post, it does have my name attached to it and given the fact that I just blew a "wad" on a recent family vacation, the Lemonman Inc corporation may not be able to weather yet another fine. I may have to move to Sirius Radio and start posting from one of their boards.

Please act accordingly people.

"Sincerely",

Lemonman Inc

All Rigths Reserved 2006


Some people just don't get it, they don't get it that they don't get it.

I had the right to remain silent.......but I didn't have the ability.
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Hey...when all is said and done ~ please note my registration number and date.

I've been here way longer than the Harleys!

69 .... Suz's lucky number <img src="/ubbt/images/graemlins/pfft.gif" alt="" /> <img src="/ubbt/images/graemlins/wink.gif" alt="" /> <img src="/ubbt/images/graemlins/laugh.gif" alt="" /> <img src="/ubbt/images/graemlins/shocked.gif" alt="" /> <img src="/ubbt/images/graemlins/cool.gif" alt="" /> <img src="/ubbt/images/graemlins/eek.gif" alt="" />

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RE: LEM's "POST"...<img src="/ubbt/images/graemlins/pfft.gif" alt="" />Phooey <img src="/ubbt/images/graemlins/pfft.gif" alt="" />!!! <img src="/ubbt/images/graemlins/grin.gif" alt="" />

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Can you please provide proof of copyright of the "Lemonman" name, image, and any other reasonable facsimilies of which you or your corporation feel entitled to sole ownership?

Georgia Guy ©
Formerly Georgia Guy ©
FGG ©
Jeb ©


Formerly G.G. and Jeb
Me: BS 50
She: xW 50
Jeb: Mini Schnauzer
Married: 29 yrs
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mimi_here #1557842 01/09/06 03:27 PM
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This is my statement regarding HIS TREND.


Mimi:

Ya may have a point here...I'll have to look at it closer.

I am not beyond admitting that I am posting in a trendsetting way.....(damn, slipped again..AM Martin, for the love of God, help me with this)..I "can't" stop !!!

Lem <img src="/ubbt/images/graemlins/grin.gif" alt="" />


Some people just don't get it, they don't get it that they don't get it.

I had the right to remain silent.......but I didn't have the ability.
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Can you please provide proof of copyright of the "Lemonman" name, image, and any other reasonable facsimilies of which you or your corporation feel entitled to sole ownership?

OK, GG, what is it gonna take for you to show me how to get that copyright icon next to my name. You want that $5.00? It's yours.

Lem <img src="/ubbt/images/graemlins/grin.gif" alt="" />


Some people just don't get it, they don't get it that they don't get it.

I had the right to remain silent.......but I didn't have the ability.
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Hey Lem,

Thought I'd add my .02 in here (I know, a little late, we're digressing in the spiral of addleness) but I have found I have learned more from the posts I don't "like" than the posts I DO 'like"...


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Hey Lem,

Thought I'd add my .02 in here (I know, a little late, we're digressing in the spiral of addleness) but I have found I have learned more from the posts I don't "like" than the posts I DO 'like"...

Yeah, that is ironic isn't it.

When I was a surgical resident, I learned more from the a$$ whipings than the attaboys. I am not saying that is right and that it is the only way....but interesting nonetheless.

In my line of work you know what they say about experience?

It comes from bad judgement... <img src="/ubbt/images/graemlins/pfft.gif" alt="" />

Lem


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I had the right to remain silent.......but I didn't have the ability.
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Mimi, good job on taking care of YOU and not running. I've run out of here (usually with very nice goodbye messages <img src="/ubbt/images/graemlins/wink.gif" alt="" />) so many times, you wouldn't believe it. The last time, I disabled my account so I couldn't write...

The thing is NBII

when we do something repeatedly,

after awhile,

we get really good at it !

maybe practice some self-soothing this time around ???

pretty soon, you'll get really good at THAT

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Lemonman you said:

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I am trying to be on a self imposed post limit diet ....didn't do to well last night. We'll try it again tonight.....I will however continue to post my views on things. While it may not always be on the "Harley" plan, it is said with intention to "help" some people. There is NO DOUBT in my mind whatsoever that my view on things has helped some people with their "recovery"....if I didn't belive that...I'd have quit posting months ago.

If one doesn't like what I say or disagrees.....simply IGNORE IT. If you see my name attached to a post...DON'T READ IT. It is kind of easy. I will try and take my own advice.

Good Day


We really have a communication gap.

I did not say that you had no right to post your views.

I never said that you you did not help anyone.

I will reiterate the point of my post and this thread.

I am saying out loud to you that I FEEL THAT IT IS NOT OK FOR YOU TO CONTINUE TO PERSONALLY OFFEND ME .

It is not OK for you to call me CRAZY despite the flowery language you use.

Do not try to hide behind the premise that I disagree with your viewpoint and do not want you to post your views.

Despite our disagreements,I have not personally insulted you and feel that you have done that to me.

You can continue. That is true.

However, when you do so, I will continue to tell you how I feel about it.

I WILL IGNORE THE POSTS THAT I CHOOSE TO IGNORE..THEY MAY INCLUDE YOUR POSTS OR NOT...


I don't find PERSONAL INSULTS TO BE A LAUGHING MATTER....

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mimi

i think he was referring to what i posted on this thread, not what you posted

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maybe practice some self-soothing this time around ???

pretty soon, you'll get really good at THAT

That *would* be something, wouldn't it? <img src="/ubbt/images/graemlins/crazy.gif" alt="" />

Let's see... I've tried the following self-soothers, with limited success:

food
sex
alcohol
cigs (not the funny kind, the legal kind)
baths
therapy
new-age, self-help, feel-good books
religion
exercise
lotions, potions
candles
music

I say all that kinda/sorta in jest, but seriously, I have issues with how to take care of me. I bet you couldn't tell. <img src="/ubbt/images/graemlins/wink.gif" alt="" />

But yes, something to really work on this year. This is MY year, you know!! <img src="/ubbt/images/graemlins/grin.gif" alt="" />



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So should I assume the comments made to ME came from a LOVING place as opposed to the other place....

Mel..you and others are loving and joking towards each other as you use the word LUNATIC...

YOU ARE CLEARLY PLAYING AND HAVING FUN....

The difference is that, IMO, Lemonman was being HOSTILE towards me and that was not called for...

Sure that's his choice..

But I don't have to like it...


I made it happen..a joyful life..filled with peace, contentment, happiness and fabulocity.
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So, if Lemon was referring to you, Eav...

As usual, he seems to be RUNNING from me...

Thinking that ignoring me and then making this into a joke is OK...

A DEFINITE TREND....


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Haha

well maybe just stop the practice of running away from your anxiety .... that is a start.

"Yep. I am anxious again. Big whoop-de-doo. I wonder what's next on my emotional menu?"

I did NOT know this year is your year !!! Did you purchase it at Target? <img src="/ubbt/images/graemlins/wink.gif" alt="" /> <img src="/ubbt/images/graemlins/laugh.gif" alt="" />

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Target? I WISH. There are no targets here. Can you believe it? WAL MART. Ugh.

Yeah, the running is getting tiring, that's for sure...



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I did NOT know this year is your year !!! Did you purchase it at Target?

This just made me LOL! <img src="/ubbt/images/graemlins/grin.gif" alt="" />


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me: FWW/BS 52 H: FWH/BS 49
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Hey pep....

What does "I need the eggs" refer to? It made me chuckle <img src="/ubbt/images/graemlins/grin.gif" alt="" /> <img src="/ubbt/images/graemlins/grin.gif" alt="" /> <img src="/ubbt/images/graemlins/grin.gif" alt="" />...

Daisy


Me: 30 WH: 29 WH: left May 8th, 2005 Now: no contact with WH since 07/02/2006 Ark on Plan A plan a tips and musings...get grounded here betrayed spouses...............JUST BE STILL...........
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But I don't have to like it...


You bug him Mimi .... and this thread is an opportunity to de-bug .... but he has to want to sit still first .... but maybe he doesn't want to yet. Time is on your side Mimi .... <img src="/ubbt/images/graemlins/laugh.gif" alt="" />

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We really have a communication gap.


I am saying out loud to you that I FEEL THAT IT IS NOT OK FOR YOU TO CONTINUE TO PERSONALLY OFFEND ME .

It is not OK for you to call me CRAZY despite the flowery language you use.

Ya know Mimi, I have thought about this a little. There have been MANY times that I have posted things (to other people no less) that you found "offensive" (SLAP <img src="/ubbt/images/graemlins/grin.gif" alt="" />) simply because you DIDN'T like the message or you didn't like the fact that it may not have been supportive or preaching Harley methods as you interpret them. I can't help the way YOU FEEL about things.

I will apologize for the things that I said in a heated moment last night that you felt were offensive. I have been gone for a few days and my immunity to this place was not up to par....no excuses, what was said was said. I'll extend an apology. I vehemently disagree with you on many points. But that is still not an excuse to offend you.

I will have to continually look for ways to express that disagreement to you in our discussions without offending you. You'll have to also realize that your feelings being hurt in our exchanges are not ALWAYS going to be the result of something that I said that was offensive. I personally am happy that you think I "have helped" you in our discussions and with your self confidence. Sounds good to me. <img src="/ubbt/images/graemlins/pfft.gif" alt="" />

Yes, I used flowerly language with some of the things I said, yes you and I don't agree on many things and personally I find I disagree with you alot more times than I agree.....I think that will be the case probably always.

When you said you would take your WH back again if he cheated again (there was no deal breaker for you that you could think of) I think you said...I realized that you and I will NEVER be on the same wave length. NEVER. That's ok though. (by the way, I think your honesty about that was great).

How about we lets let this one go at that. I don't have the energy for this today. Perhaps another day.

Good day

Lem <img src="/ubbt/images/graemlins/grin.gif" alt="" />

P.S. In a calm and soothing voice (controlled and all) I ask you again: If your WH had hit your son and busted him in the ribs and threatened to hit him again, and threatened to kidnap him....(EVEN just once), would you ever let him alone with your son again? Would you risk it even if you thought it might be a "bluff"

I am asking you a question. Plain and simple. Would you? Yes or no would suffice for me.


Some people just don't get it, they don't get it that they don't get it.

I had the right to remain silent.......but I didn't have the ability.
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