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Re: Lemonman white_daisy #1557858 01/09/06 04:50 PM
Joined: Oct 2000 Posts: 35,996 Shrek's Swamp P Pepperband Member
Pepperband Member P Joined: Oct 2000 Posts: 35,996 Shrek's Swamp	Quote Hey pep.... What does "I need the eggs" refer to? It made me chuckle <img src="/ubbt/images/graemlins/grin.gif" alt="" /> <img src="/ubbt/images/graemlins/grin.gif" alt="" /> <img src="/ubbt/images/graemlins/grin.gif" alt="" />... Daisy earlier on this thread..... Somedays I ask myself why i am still here after all this time .... reminds me of the old Woody Allen joke about the man who went to a psychiatrist and said: "DOC, ya gotta help me. My brother thinks he's a chicken." The Doc says: "Well, why don't you bring him to see me. It may take a few weeks to convince him that he's not a chicken." The man says: "But DOC, you don't understand !!! I need the eggs." We're all here because we need the eggs !!!! LINK ~~> Carrot/Stick of Plan A LINK ~~> Buyers/Renters/Freeloaders

Re: Lemonman Pepperband #1557859 01/09/06 04:53 PM
Joined: Apr 2004 Posts: 1,182 W white_daisy Member
white_daisy Member W Joined: Apr 2004 Posts: 1,182	pep.... <img src="/ubbt/images/graemlins/grin.gif" alt="" /> <img src="/ubbt/images/graemlins/grin.gif" alt="" /> <img src="/ubbt/images/graemlins/grin.gif" alt="" /> Now that really made me laugh! Thanks.... Enjoy! Daisy <img src="/ubbt/images/graemlins/cool.gif" alt="" /> Me: 30 WH: 29 WH: left May 8th, 2005 Now: no contact with WH since 07/02/2006 Ark on Plan A plan a tips and musings...get grounded here betrayed spouses...............JUST BE STILL...........

Re: Lemonman Pepperband #1557860 01/09/06 04:58 PM
Joined: Feb 2002 Posts: 10,816 2 2long Member
2long Member 2 Joined: Feb 2002 Posts: 10,816	"reminds me of the old Woody Allen joke about the man who went to a psychiatrist and said:" Woody Allen kyped that one from Groucho Marks. ...a timeless classic! -ol' 2long

Re: Lemonman 2long #1557861 01/09/06 04:59 PM
Joined: Jul 2004 Posts: 3,179 L lemonman Member
lemonman Member L Joined: Jul 2004 Posts: 3,179	Quote "reminds me of the old Woody Allen joke about the man who went to a psychiatrist and said:" Woody Allen kyped that one from Groucho Marks. ...a timeless classic! -ol' 2long Boy you people are old... <img src="/ubbt/images/graemlins/grin.gif" alt="" /> Some people just don't get it, they don't get it that they don't get it. I had the right to remain silent.......but I didn't have the ability.

Re: Lemonman lemonman #1557862 01/09/06 05:07 PM
Joined: Jan 2005 Posts: 2,204 D dorry Member
dorry Member D Joined: Jan 2005 Posts: 2,204	Lem...you know I love ya <img src="/ubbt/images/graemlins/smile.gif" alt="" /> Even though you are harsh on us WS's you really speak the truth..and have taught me ALOT. So don't go anywhere k? Mimi, I am proud of ya for standing up for yourself - even though you and I have never really talked - I have read and followed your story since I joined on a year ago... I remember you having a very similar fight with pep when I first joined on - her harsh words offended you alot too - but you didn't really stand up for youself...you waddled, you said you were sorry pep felt that way....you were trying to make everything okay...I had to go dig up the post but I found it here. post here You are a sensitive gal who I personally think likes to people please - why some people on here worry about your pleasing nature to your husband and advice to EAV. but the thing is - it's just you and who you are...and it's okay to be that way - as long as YOu know your limitations...and good for you for showing your boundaries with someone on here who over stepped them - to me that is huge progress from the mimi I remember when i first joined up. When someone gets abrupt with you - sometimes it's cause they care and maybe get sick of seeing you giving in where maybe they feel you shouldn't have to? I dont know - just an observation. Last edited by dorry; 01/09/06 05:08 PM. Dorry (aka Deeplysorry) me FWW - EA/PA fall of 2004 FWH EA/PA late spring 2005 Got our acts together July 2005 and started recovery. The Recovery Guide for WW's (Wayward Wives) Dorry's Story [color:"blue"]Excuses are easy...change is hard....[/color]

Re: Lemonman WhoMe #1557863 01/09/06 05:08 PM
Joined: Feb 2002 Posts: 10,816 2 2long Member
2long Member 2 Joined: Feb 2002 Posts: 10,816	"Oh My, I thought that 69 was a typo...didn't know that either infidelity or the internet had been around that long!!" Heck, I'm not even sure Al Gore has been around that long! <img src="/ubbt/images/graemlins/grin.gif" alt="" /> -ol' 2long

Re: Lemonman 2long #1557864 01/09/06 05:14 PM
Joined: Feb 2002 Posts: 10,816 2 2long Member
2long Member 2 Joined: Feb 2002 Posts: 10,816	Susan: What's the square root of 69?

Re: Lemonman dorry #1557865 01/09/06 05:14 PM
Joined: Jul 2004 Posts: 3,179 L lemonman Member
lemonman Member L Joined: Jul 2004 Posts: 3,179	Quote Lem...you know I love ya <img src="/ubbt/images/graemlins/smile.gif" alt="" /> Even though you are harsh on us WS's you really speak the truth..and have taught me ALOT. So don't go anywhere k? Dorry: I am not harsh on "us WS's". I don't like or respect active Cheaters. I have little or no pity for a man/woman who willngly does this to their family. That is not harsh. That is reality. I love you to gal. Lem <img src="/ubbt/images/graemlins/grin.gif" alt="" /> Some people just don't get it, they don't get it that they don't get it. I had the right to remain silent.......but I didn't have the ability.

Re: Lemonman 2long #1557866 01/09/06 05:14 PM
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2long Member 2 Joined: Feb 2002 Posts: 10,816	Answer...

Re: Lemonman 2long #1557867 01/09/06 05:14 PM
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2long Member 2 Joined: Feb 2002 Posts: 10,816	8 something

Re: Lemonman 2long #1557868 01/09/06 05:26 PM
Joined: Oct 2000 Posts: 35,996 Shrek's Swamp P Pepperband Member
Pepperband Member P Joined: Oct 2000 Posts: 35,996 Shrek's Swamp	Quote 8 something ewwwwwwwwwwwwwww CENSOR may be called in .... can I get a decision on this JustUs? LOL <img src="/ubbt/images/graemlins/grin.gif" alt="" /> LINK ~~> Carrot/Stick of Plan A LINK ~~> Buyers/Renters/Freeloaders

Re: Lemonman Pepperband #1557869 01/09/06 05:37 PM
Joined: Jan 2006 Posts: 977 N new_beginningII Member
new_beginningII Member N Joined: Jan 2006 Posts: 977	2long, 8something? Dang if I didn't have to read that three times to figure out why Pepperband wrote what she did. If we're going to dirtyjokeland, I only have one... about these three nuns... Don't force me to use it. It's bad.

Re: Lemonman new_beginningII #1557870 01/09/06 05:40 PM
Joined: Feb 2002 Posts: 10,816 2 2long Member
2long Member 2 Joined: Feb 2002 Posts: 10,816	Okayyyy!... 8.3066238629, 2 be a bit more precise. See? I meant nothing by it, trust me! -ol' 2long

Re: Lemonman Pepperband #1557871 01/09/06 05:47 PM
Joined: Aug 2004 Posts: 862 F faithinme Member
faithinme Member F Joined: Aug 2004 Posts: 862	Quote Quote 8 something ewwwwwwwwwwwwwww CENSOR may be called in .... can I get a decision on this JustUs? LOL <img src="/ubbt/images/graemlins/grin.gif" alt="" /> LMAO Pep.... you troublemaker!!! <img src="/ubbt/images/graemlins/blush.gif" alt="" /> <img src="/ubbt/images/graemlins/grin.gif" alt="" /> Do not ask the Lord to guide your footsteps if you are not willing to move your feet.

Re: Lemonman faithinme #1557872 01/09/06 05:55 PM
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2long Member 2 Joined: Feb 2002 Posts: 10,816	Yeah Pep! <img src="/ubbt/images/graemlins/grin.gif" alt="" /> <img src="/ubbt/images/graemlins/grin.gif" alt="" />

Re: Lemonman lemonman #1557873 01/09/06 06:17 PM
Joined: Apr 2001 Posts: 92,985 Likes: 1 Texas M MelodyLane Member
MelodyLane Member M Joined: Apr 2001 Posts: 92,985 Likes: 1 Texas	Quote Ladies, gentleman, "others": This thread has not authorized to be an "idiotville" thread. There are restrictions against this kind of thread and financial and criminal penalties will apply. We ain't scared of no yankeeDAWG! <img src="/ubbt/images/graemlins/pfft.gif" alt="" /> click here to see what we think o t...ns/grin.gif" alt="" /> "It is not the critic who counts; not the man who points out how the strong man stumbles, or where the doer of deeds could have done them better. The credit belongs to the man who is actually in the arena.." Theodore Roosevelt Exposure 101

Re: Lemonman 2long #1557874 01/09/06 06:18 PM
Joined: Apr 2001 Posts: 92,985 Likes: 1 Texas M MelodyLane Member
MelodyLane Member M Joined: Apr 2001 Posts: 92,985 Likes: 1 Texas	Quote Yeah Pep! <img src="/ubbt/images/graemlins/grin.gif" alt="" /> <img src="/ubbt/images/graemlins/grin.gif" alt="" /> All you need to remember is HOOK EM HORNS, BABY! <img src="/ubbt/images/graemlins/grin.gif" alt="" /> "It is not the critic who counts; not the man who points out how the strong man stumbles, or where the doer of deeds could have done them better. The credit belongs to the man who is actually in the arena.." Theodore Roosevelt Exposure 101

Re: Lemonman Pepperband #1557875 01/09/06 07:16 PM
Joined: May 2002 Posts: 1,816 J JustUss Administrator Member
JustUss Administrator Member J Joined: May 2002 Posts: 1,816	Quote can I get a decision on this JustUs? <img src="/ubbt/images/graemlins/shocked.gif" alt="" /> <img src="/ubbt/images/graemlins/shocked.gif" alt="" /> <img src="/ubbt/images/graemlins/shocked.gif" alt="" /> JustUss Administrator/Moderator

Re: Lemonman JustUss #1557876 01/09/06 07:18 PM
Joined: Mar 2002 Posts: 1,781 C CSue Member
CSue Member C Joined: Mar 2002 Posts: 1,781	Well, you've shocked Justuss speechless!!! "The actions you speak are louder than your words!" Author unknown "Miracles are seen in light." From "A Course In Miracles".

Re: Lemonman lemonman #1557877 01/09/06 07:19 PM
Joined: Dec 2002 Posts: 15,310 M mimi_here OP Member
OP mimi_here Member M Joined: Dec 2002 Posts: 15,310	Quote There have been MANY times that I have posted things (to other people no less) that you found "offensive" (SLAP ) simply because you DIDN'T like the message or you didn't like the fact that it may not have been supportive or preaching Harley methods as you interpret them. I can't help the way YOU FEEL about things. You continue NOT TO GET THIS!!! First of all you used a GENERAL, BROAD, NONSPECIFIC term again. You said that MANY times I found you to be offensive. I beg to differ with you on this. I guess it's how you define MANY. I would say at the most TWO maybe THREE times. I do not count that as MANY.... Secondly, I am not talking about THOSE times which I don't even recall. I am speaking of THIS TIME in reference to ME... Thirdly, I don't care about your message, no offense. I don't even care if you disagree with Harley principles. That is not the issue here. The Harley Principles speak for themselves. THE ISSUE IS YOUR OFFENSIVENESS TO ME. Fourth, you all all people, preaching about CODEPENDENCE, should appreciate that I don't care if you care about my feelings...MY FEELINGS JUST ARE MY FEELINGS AND I CHOOSE TO COMMUNICATE THESE FEELINGS TO YOU. I sincerely appreciate your apology, though. But it could have been lost and buried after your first paragragh which led me to make the initial four points to you. You said: Quote I realized that you and I will NEVER be on the same wave length. NEVER. Just this statement in itself captures our differences. NEVER IS A LONG TIME... OH, the many things that I said NEVER would happen... I said that my H would NEVER have an A..I said that I would NEVER BE THIS HAPPY AGAIN...I said that OS and my H would NEVER be close...NEVER SAY NEVER is one of my mottos... I guess this answers your question about would I EVER let my H be alone with my son again if he did horrible things to him.... My answer is YES..if my H did all those horrible things and then CHANGED as he has CHANGED now..if he said he was sorry and I believed him..if he said it almost every day IN SOME WAY as he does now..to show me that he is SORRY FOR THE AWFUL THINGS HE DID AND MAKES IT CLEAR TO ME THAT HE DOES NOT PLAN TO DO SUCH THINGS AGAIN... You have to live my life to see this... You have to live my life to see the MIRACLE that has happened in my life... This is who I am and why I am the way that I am... I HAVE BEEN TO HE** AND BACK MANY, MANY, MANY TIMES SINCE CHILDHOOD AND NOW I AM ONE OF THE HAPPIEST PERSONS THERE IS... Tell you the truth, though, it's hard for me to even imagine my H hurting our sons...he's a puny little thing and they are HUNKS/FOOTBALL AND SOCCER PLAYERS...He would have to fear for his life..I wouldn't have to protect them.... <img src="/ubbt/images/graemlins/cool.gif" alt="" /> ENOUGH SAID ON THIS.... [ Last edited by mimi1254; 01/09/06 07:28 PM. I made it happen..a joyful life..filled with peace, contentment, happiness and fabulocity.

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