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**YAWN**..
Now that's positive and reassuring ... I just love SUPPORT boards..
thanks for all the support and confidence and encouragement to help me and W recover... EM: Interesting choice of words you use in your response above. The irony is certainly not lost on me <img src="/ubbt/images/graemlins/grin.gif" alt="" /> Best of luck in your recovery. Lem
Some people just don't get it, they don't get it that they don't get it.
I had the right to remain silent.......but I didn't have the ability.
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EM...you're so right. What was I thinking? I mean, imagine that there might be people on this forum that might actually be able to give you some insight?
Where were your words of wisdom when I needed them?
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"agree to disagree" = Used when one wants to reject the objective reality of the situation and hopefully replace it with their own.
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Yeah...just like Mr. Wondering said... HUGGIE BUG YA!!! <img src="/ubbt/images/graemlins/grin.gif" alt="" /> <img src="/ubbt/images/graemlins/grin.gif" alt="" /> <img src="/ubbt/images/graemlins/grin.gif" alt="" />
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(((((((Earthman)))))))
Let's make it a group hug!!!
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I've got $50 on Flukette for the cage fight. Betting window is OPEN kiddies!
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PA #1 12/1996
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There are people in the world so hungry, that God cannot appear to them except in the form of bread.
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Hey, I'll get in the cage with her, but I think that she and I should get all the money...K? Flukette, let's go SHOPPING!!! <img src="/ubbt/images/graemlins/grin.gif" alt="" /> <img src="/ubbt/images/graemlins/grin.gif" alt="" /> <img src="/ubbt/images/graemlins/grin.gif" alt="" /> Mrs. W
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Sorry you didn't get the support you desired. We thought people came here to recover their marriages and learn to protect their marriages from affairs.
Of course some people only come to argue and whine and debate everyone else.
Some people come here to get their views justified.
If you didn't think it was an affair then why in the world did you post it in an infidelity forum?
Maybe you don't understnad the word infidelity. It is usually associated with an affair. Since that was not what your wife here, maybe you posted in the wrong spot. We are all supportive of those trying to recover theri marriages.
We are not supportive of those who know more than everyone else yet still come on here asking for adivce.
Maybe next time you post you might put a disclaimer in the first line: Despite the fact that I am posting on a recovey forum and am askign for adivce, there is no affair and all advice will be ignored.
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Maybe next time you post you might put a disclaimer in the first line: Despite the fact that I am posting on a recovey forum and am askign for adivce, there is no affair and all advice will be ignored. I apologize for making light of this thread, but honestly....I literally burst out laughing to myself reading that post above by movingforward. That was funny, even Earthman, would have to admit. Lem <img src="/ubbt/images/graemlins/grin.gif" alt="" />
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I had the right to remain silent.......but I didn't have the ability.
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OK...let's meet in the middle & go from there.... <img src="/ubbt/images/graemlins/smile.gif" alt="" /> <img src="/ubbt/images/graemlins/smile.gif" alt="" /> <img src="/ubbt/images/graemlins/smile.gif" alt="" />
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BS 36
Married 5/25/91
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DD - Born 11/8/05
PA #1 12/1996
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NC 1/04
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<img src="/ubbt/images/graemlins/grin.gif" alt="" /> <img src="/ubbt/images/graemlins/grin.gif" alt="" /> <img src="/ubbt/images/graemlins/grin.gif" alt="" />
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you want to compare a 3 year PA with a 3 week email chat session about pictures??
come on...
you know what... the metrics don't matter.... the pain, the suffering... and the healing are all the same..
just be more positive and don't think recovery is a shoe horned B&W science.. it's not.. there's two spheres (BS/WS), joined by another sphere (M), inter-joined by yet another sphere (children).. and each and collectively unique.
I refuse to think that what applies to one or more will apply to all and certain methods can be used or withheld depending on where you are in recovery..
Let's agree to disagree and call it a thread.. I want to move on to some more interesting things..
ok..
3 years... phew...
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wait.. let me get this staight.. .Flukeboy and flukette are like a married couple and they are both posting on the same internet board and in the same forum in the same threads.. and like 20 mins. apart..
Do you guys both work nights or something and have lots of time to kill. because if you're actually in the same house, this evening.. with kids.. posting on this thing.. in the same forum and in the same thread.. like that would be a little too trippy for me and I'm going to really get scared..
please tell me it's a long distance marriage or something..
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FYI...MR. & MRS. WONDERING ARE ALSO A DOUBLE POSTING DYNAMIC DUO--DOES "WONDERS" FOR CLOSENESS, EVEN YOU'D BE SURPRISED EM!!! <img src="/ubbt/images/graemlins/grin.gif" alt="" />
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ok.. so at least now I know what I'm dealing with...
a married couple, in the SAME house.. posting on an Internet board about their marital problems..
I want to wish all of you a happy and healthy life and nothing but good things in your marriage....
I gotta go now...... and quickly...
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We call it recreational companionship
Mr. W
here's some more ((((((()))))))))))
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No worries <img src="/ubbt/images/graemlins/smile.gif" alt="" />
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from moving forward:
Maybe next time you post you might put a disclaimer in the first line: Despite the fact that I am posting on a recovey forum and am askign for adivce, there is no affair and all advice will be ignored. Thank you for that MF .....put a smile on many a face. <img src="/ubbt/images/graemlins/grin.gif" alt="" /> Feeling the Love dirt dud?? <img src="/ubbt/images/graemlins/pfft.gif" alt="" />
Fooling people is serious business, but when you fool yourself it Becomes Fatal.
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EM... We're here together...we do have a life, together...Where's Mrs. EM now??? Bring her EM...you'd be pleasantly surprised... <img src="/ubbt/images/graemlins/smile.gif" alt="" /> Mrs. W
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