I have either lost my mind or found a new me. I got a call from the OMW today because she saw me talking to one of her friends which is one of mine. But friend was told by me what has been going on. She called me to say that I can bad mouth her to my friends but not hers. I then replied that I don't bad mouth her I don't even hate her. I feel sorry that I lost a friend and that my husband has now said he doesn't love me. We talked for 25 min about how she has a personality that draws people into her and she should not feel bad for that....BUT she needs to set some limits. She just kept saying that it was not surposed to end up like this. I replied it happen and if you would stay away from my WH he might come out of his fog. I also said she needs to talk to someone anyone but myhusband because hearing the words come out of ones mouth is better than listening to it in ones head. I was so calm it scared me. But I am proud I also didn't get sick after.


Me-30 WH-29 M-6.5yr D-day #1 12/17/05 D-Day #2 1/16/06 DD's-5 and 9 Exposed 1/16/06 Moved to US 6/1/06 2000 milesaway from OW. I won't give up without a fight. The future????