Ask Me I have a few questions on SA Can you help?

Sure, I would be glad to answer any questions on SA.

My H used to be a SA many many years ago, that is I think he was and so does H but I had one counselor say no, another says H was starting to become one from what H told him and yet another say H was.

I have been posting on MB for about 2 years. My other name was maxlo3. H is now 61 and I am just 59 (today's my birthday. I would like your opinion as a recovering Sa to hear my story and tell me what YOU think.

I hate to re-post my story as it is shameful for all others to read again. If you can, I can email you the story. I will give my email address. I have a hotmail account, anonymous. So, is this okay with you? Also I would like to know how long did it take for your wife to come to terms...no more anger or saddness about your infidelities. Was there any one thing that really helped her overcome this and forgive you?

Thanks so much....Maxie

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*edited to remove email address*

thanks....will write tomorrow. I have your email address.