Several "small" things have happened over the last few weeks, but if I put them together, I get nervous. Prior to the Holidays, my H was all excited about planning our winter vacation, but after a couple of setbacks, he's willing to forget the whole idea. Then, his New Year's toast to me was "I hope we'll be able to do this again next year". It seems if we spend more than a whole day togther, he finds some reason to be angry with me. For example (I'm still scratching my head over this one), New Year's eve day, we went to visit my family. It's a two hour drive, and this was the day we exchanged gifts. we got up at a decent hour, drove down and back in the same day. He acted OK down there, but he had been sick with a cold, and kind of sat back from other people. Once we were home, he acted distant from me. His explaination was "we were going to see your family, but I had to get out of bed first, or we would never have gotten up". Last weekend he was angry with me yet again, Mon morning I left w/o kissing him or an ILY. He followed me to work, and when I got in his truck next to him, he said "I was mad yesterday because (his favorite football team lost) and then you said somethings that made me mad". When I asked him what I said, he said "don't worry about it, you'll forget all about it in a couple of days". He also found out that I have been "snooping" in his truck. Am I making "mountains out of molehills" or have I been knocked down so many times that I'm overly suspicious??