My wife came home on Friday and night and admitted to haveing a 5month affair with her co-worker. She is not willing to give him up becasue they have a connection that we don't have. She says he is telling her all these things that I don't. She says she can open up to him unlike our relationship.

He broke up with his girlfriend to be with my wife who just turned 40 this year. We have a 7 year old boy.

We have been going to therapy under false preteenous for 5 months thinking we were having problems. She never said there was anyone else but I thought it was odd we were going no where in theray. She has been leaving me every weekend to take care of our little boy.

She says she is torn but needs to do this. She wants me to live in the house and NOT get an attorney just yet. I am so shaken I can hardly work. My whole reality of my family is gone. To make matters worse, her parentss have disowned her. I know she needs their support now. This just amakes her run to him that much quicker. Itold her that she is messing up 3 lives here but wnhat can I do. I know she needs to be aaway from me. We have been married for 10 years with only a few days apart. She needs to miss me but I don't think she is coming back.

Help, I am frantic.
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Have you seen this thread? You might find WAT's guidelines helpful...

http://www.marriagebuilders.com/ubb...05303&an=0&page=0#405303