Are you willing to get motorcycles license? This is plan A. You address all the valid grievances of you in M. No, it is not the same. It is book by G. Smalley. Let me give you example to use word pictures:

I assume H has an old motorcycle that he loves & owns for a long time.
W: What are the reasons you bought that motorcycle in the beginning?.
H: x, y, z, etc.
W: When the transmission when out last year, why did you still keep and fix it ?
H: b/c I love it and I could get it fix and working again.
W: What would you do if you find a faulty brake b/c of defect that you didn’t see before ?. Do you still fix it and keep it ?
H: Of course, I would not sell it.
W: I would love to be your motorcycles. You are willing to fix any defect of it … I do have defect, an A, and I am willing and could be fix. If you let me go now, someone else would work on this motorcycle and soon he would be enjoy riding this motorcycle w/o defect no more.

Hope you have a chance to use it, revised it to suit your need <img src="/ubbt/images/graemlins/wink.gif" alt="" /> . I am on my last semester of MA in clinical psychology, I am working toward LMFT. I am graduating this May <img src="/ubbt/images/graemlins/laugh.gif" alt="" /> .

Good luck w/ your case. Follow through with your plan and have faith in HIM. HE provides water for plants and foods for animal, HE would certainly provide for HIS children.

God Bless you. -rh-