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Can anyone direct me to articles or messages boards here or any other websites for those who have done the cheating.
I think it would help my husband to see the perspective of others like him.
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Sorry but the only place of can think of that would be helpful ........we're not Allowed to mention on here anymore. (???)
The other places he can go ---
yes, they give the perspective of the WS,
but sadly encourage and condone it.
Be very VERY careful with this.
Fooling people is serious business, but when you fool yourself it Becomes Fatal.
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help for what ? ... to cheat ? or to build M ? .
To build M ... just send him here ... In "Just Found Out" there are many posts that bring me to tear ... from BS or repentant WS a like.
-rh-
Give your absolute best such that you could look back 10 years from now w/ no regret.
Happily Married to Lady Elina - 04/29/06
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I hate to say it but that was the most confusing post I've ever read. What was the point of posting if you can't share the information that I am looking for????
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I am new to this board so I'm not familiar with the abbreviations you are using.
Why the heck would I want to HELP him cheat.
He is the cheater and he is attempting to repent. I thought it would help for him to read the post of other cheaters who are trying to "repair" themselves and their relationships.
BTW what is BS and WS??
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Luv, aren't you looking for threads authored by WH's who can give her husband a look into how badly the WH's feel about what they did? I think folks are misinterpreting your request.
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iluvmy2,
I'm a recent cheater (or FWW -- Formerly Wayward Wife) who's been getting a lot of great advice on this board about what I need to do to save my marriage. I wish I knew how to create a link to my most relevant thread "I cheated, I told, still struggling". But if you have the time and patience to go through the pages in this section of the board, you should be able to find it.
Hope that helps.
-SC
"I require more from my spouse than behaving well in order to avoid pain." (guess who)
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Here is a link to: I cheated. I told. Still struggling!! iluvmy2 - THIS site is for both, betrayed spouses (BS) and former wayword spouses (FWS). i think there might be more BSs here than FWSs but we (FWS, cuz that is what i am) are here too.
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Longhorn,
You read it correctly. I am looking for websites or forums of people who have cheated and are wanting to talk to other cheaters who are trying to "reform and repair" themselves and their relationships.
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