SO, as i am now trying to fix my marriage with my WH, I am faced with a dilema. As you can see from my thread above I slept with another man this past saturday. Alcohol was involved and I didn't really even do it b/c I was "into" the guy. I guess I did it because i felt like I should see what my WH has been doing for so long.

Anyway, long story short, I felt like complete crap the next day. I Felt even lower and disgusting as I had been telling my WH he was. So now we are fixing things, selling our home, moving away...So do i tell him? He even asked me if anything happened and I said "of course not." My WH has always trusted me...always known that I was a loyal woman. I feel sick that I did this. And at the time i was planning on getting divorced, so i just did it. What do i do now? Do i tell him or just keep it hidden away. IT was DEF a one time thing and i'll never see that person again b/c they were just visiting.

ANy advice???

BW 26 me
WH 29
Married 06-20-2003
- Moved to this state 08-01-2004
- Friendship between my WH and the OW began in 11-2004 then the A began i believe around 03-2005
- DDay 09-17-2005
- Plan A - didn't work...was still contacting the OW
- Asked him to leave (Plan B)Wednesday, 01/11/2006
- Back at home as of tonight (02/01/2006) Says the fog has permanently lifted from him (we are going to sell the house and move).

does anyone have any advice on my post above??