Hi-remember the blowout we had last week? Well H had to leave to go out of town on Mon. morning. We didn't talk until he came home on Wed. night, our 23rd wedding anniversary. I was just to raw to speak to him while he was gone and as much as I wanted to call him, I just couldn't do it.

We had quite a conversation and the EA is full out in the open.I also found out about JT and that phone number that I found.I really don't know yet whether or not it turned physical. The OW says no. I do know that she is no longer my very 2nd best friend in the world (we were like sisters)and never can be a part of our lives again.

I have been so physical ill by this and my pastor says that it's situational depression.

In any case I am now ready to hard hit back to plan A'ing my fanny off. DH has said that he will have 100% no contact any longer, so here we go to withdrawal. I have been getting help from my Pastor with counseling and soon will request DH come for marriage counseling with me.

I know it isn't over by a long shot and that things will probably get worse before they get better but it is a start and that is something to have some faith in, right? <img src="/ubbt/images/graemlins/smile.gif" alt="" />

Just wanted to update and thank you all for all of your help and suggestions.

Has your husband written a no contact letter?