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#1562808 01/13/06 03:20 PM
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Can anyone look up a cell phone # for me??

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Tialyn,

I don't know how to look up cell #'s, but I'm glad your here. I have been thinking of you. How is everything going?

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I don't know how to look up a cell phone number, but perhaps you could go to a pay-phone and call the number... Wrong numbers happen, you know... perhaps you could even be chatty and find out WHO you mis-dialled. Just a thought.


BS (me - 32) WW - Crystal43 (34) D-Day - June '05 3 DDs NC - w/ OM #1, could be; w/ newest-OM, who knows New OM. Same MO She moved out 3/15/06 ("Beware the Ides of March!") "This is the confidence we have in approaching God: that if we ask anything according to his will, he hears us. And if we know that he hears us —whatever we ask— we know that we have what we asked of him." 1 John 5:14-15 (NIV)
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Terrible!

He's taking another trip this weekend.
I went through his bag last night since he was so covert about it & put it in his truck. I found OUR WINE GLASSES AND SLIPPERY STUFF (LUBE). He took it off of my dresser!!!
It was all I could do not to kill him in his sleep.
My best friend & I are planning to try to track him litterally but I don't know. I've been working like a nut trying to find some info on him.
This is the cell # that he keeps calling.
I'm going to stop on the way home & try from a pay phone.
I thought he was leaving this afternoon but he's still at work. He is taking a rental car too!!!
Can you believe the balls on this man!
We're loosing our house & owe everyone in the world & he's taking a trip to f another woman!!! I'm furious but keeping it as cool as possible. I just want that proof!


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You will not be able to look up a cell phone number. I've tried on MSN white pages, etc and it just tells you who the carrier is (Verizon, etc).

Try calling it. I wish I had the nerve to call one I was wondering about.


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just *67 on your home phone. Do you know the number? Maybe someone here would call it. Sometimes people leave there name on the voice messages -try calling it late late at night or early in the am.


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Terrible!

He's taking another trip this weekend.
I went through his bag last night since he was so covert about it & put it in his truck. I found OUR WINE GLASSES AND SLIPPERY STUFF (LUBE). He took it off of my dresser!!!
It was all I could do not to kill him in his sleep.
My best friend & I are planning to try to track him litterally but I don't know. I've been working like a nut trying to find some info on him.
This is the cell # that he keeps calling.
I'm going to stop on the way home & try from a pay phone.
I thought he was leaving this afternoon but he's still at work. He is taking a rental car too!!!
Can you believe the balls on this man!
We're loosing our house & owe everyone in the world & he's taking a trip to f another woman!!! I'm furious but keeping it as cool as possible. I just want that proof!

T: What will you do when you get the proof?.


Some people just don't get it, they don't get it that they don't get it.

I had the right to remain silent.......but I didn't have the ability.
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Tialynn, if you don't want to have a friend call the number "by mistake," you can consult a "reverse directory" on line. Do a Google search using the search string "reverse directory" (including the quotes) and you'll get a zillion responses. Be forewarned. Most of the sites have a fee (~ $30 or so) for the service.

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So why don't you remove all the cash out of the bank. That way he can not pay for anything?


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just found out H is a serial cheater - total cut to pieces now- saw a D lawyer today.
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Oh... I've got an idea that might dampen the excitement your H will have... Call from a pay-phone, and verify it is, in fact, a female's number. Then, after he's left and should have arrived (perhaps even call his cell to verify he's been on the ground) give him enough time to meet up with his paramour, then call HER number, and ask to talk to HIM! <img src="/ubbt/images/graemlins/eek.gif" alt="" />

Can you say cooked-spaghetti! <img src="/ubbt/images/graemlins/grin.gif" alt="" />


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great ideas guys. Some I had & plan to do.
I was just hoping someone on the group may
have paid for the access & help others.
I've tried everything on line (not paying-I'm at work).

He is being so bold & I know he thinks he's
in the clear to do what he wants too.
WRONG!
I'm monitoring his cell calls on line.
He's on his way to pick up the rental car
& then be on his way.
Had spies trying to get color & tags.

He changed jobs a couple of weeks ago.
Went from direct dept to cashing his check.
I have no control over that & he is still
putting money in the bank but !!!

I'm seeing the lawyer on monday afternoon.
I'd just love to have a pic of a meeting.
Even if the only thing I ever get is the
satisfaction that I can prove he is a LIAR
to all of these people around him supporting him
and to his smug face!!!

He's pushed my last button taking my own
lube to a weekend trist!!!


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Consider changing the locks, too.

I have a particular distaste for OP. I say, if you call and get her name, do whatever it takes to destroy HER reputation. She probably knows your H is married. If she doesn't, as they say, it's caveat emptor!

If you want to be really mean (not that I would EVER actually suggest that anybody do this), I suppose, if he were flying somewhere, some sort of contraband might find its way into his luggage, somehow...

I dare say, when he comes home, and you force go through the luggage and find the now less-full lube, you can hold it up and say you didn't know he had a meeting with an IRS auditor, and don't they bring their own? Then you can offer to bring him an especially soft cushion to sit on. <img src="/ubbt/images/graemlins/grin.gif" alt="" />


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I have an idea about the lube tube.

You can get numbing cream (numzit) at the drugstore. It's for teething babies. A syringe - from a pet store - could be used to inject the numbing cream into the lube tube. It isn't harmful, but imagine how numb they will be feeling!

Questions?

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I have an idea about the lube tube.

You can get numbing cream (numzit) at the drugstore. It's for teething babies. A syringe - from a pet store - could be used to inject the numbing cream into the lube tube. It isn't harmful, but imagine how numb they will be feeling!

Questions?

Brilliant ! <img src="/ubbt/images/graemlins/grin.gif" alt="" />


Some people just don't get it, they don't get it that they don't get it.

I had the right to remain silent.......but I didn't have the ability.
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I was just thinking some sand grains in the lube. Or even some Tabasco or chili seeds…

The numbing cream might “better his performance”.

Would putting a gps tracker in his truck do any help?

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I have a particular distaste for OP. I say, if you call and get her name, do whatever it takes to destroy HER reputation. She probably knows your H is married. If she doesn't, as they say, it's caveat emptor!

Interersting. Not saying that I necessarily disagree.

However, would you have the same advice if in the act of " destroying HER (OW) reputation" the Wayward Husbands reputation was equally destroyed?

I am assuming yes.

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Some people just don't get it, they don't get it that they don't get it.

I had the right to remain silent.......but I didn't have the ability.
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Pierce little holes all over the lube tube and then it will leak into all his stuff. What a liberty!

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Even if you can't get the picture of him with the other woman you can get evidence he had sex. Of course the lub is pretty strong. There are test kits you can buy that will tell you when there is sperm on the undergarments of a person. They cost about $50 for 10. Make sure you don't wash them till after you talk to your lawyer in case it will be relivant.


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that is classic! kinda takes the "fun" out of it!!! <img src="/ubbt/images/graemlins/grin.gif" alt="" />


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how's about removing some of the slippery stuff via syringe and replacing it with say...icy hot? that would NOT feel so romantic.

Incidentally, my best friend busted my then H at the home of one of his mistresses...she called me, gave me the woman's address...and I CALLED THE NUMBER AND ASKED FOR MY H WHO WAS OVER THERE...SAID I WAS HIS WIFE AND WAS WONDERING WHY HE WAS THERE? ow hung up.

but if you really want proof...don't go spending money doing test kits...and such...not sure without a lab doing anything that it could hold up in court..

JUST HIRE A PI. I found out all Ineeded to know in one night. and you know where wh is going this weekend...so get a pi and get them on it.

you need: photo of wh, the car and tags he will be driving..where he might be going etc. they are all ex police and can tail anybody..and do it discreetly.

you hire them...smile and wave sweetly and kiss the liar goodbye. let the pro's do the rest. and that is evidence which will hold up in court.


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