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#1563038 01/14/06 02:52 AM
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My wife of 20 years had an affair, says she is not involved with him anymore, understands our problems, but says that she just does not "feel" anything anymore and isn't going to fake it anymore. We are in christian counselling, the cousellor is great, we both understand the concepts, I am ready to work on are marriage, but she simply states that she cant do something that she does not feel....Where do I start? do I just unconditionally love her through this, or give her an ultimatum? it has been 4 months.Wants no physical contact except for occational sex.

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I believe you should post this in the General Question II forum under Infidelity. You will find alot of people will have very good insight on your situation


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