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He Just Got Busted Now What ?
#1564858 01/16/06 04:20 AM
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I Have been married for 5 years and I knew my husband was doing somethings but could not prove them. So I got to looking on the internet checking the files and cookies and found a site for adult friend finder on his site. so I tried to go in his site and he changed the pass word. So I set up a false account in this site to see if he was a member and there he was with a nude pic on this site what a F******* site for me to find. So I confronted him about it and then he said he deleted the membership so I believed him well tonight after work I went into the false email address I set up and there was a messege for me from this site the AFF and it was from him he told me where he lived and wanted to meet up with me for a good time WTF what should I do
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ladychevy72 #1564859 01/16/06 04:32 AM
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Sounds like a bad soap opera....but if you can stand it, setup a meeting and bring a friend. A good friend. Then bust him in a very public place. No scene, you walking in there is enough. Give him 1 item to look for, so he will spend his time scrutinizing every woman around....... that will make your surprise attack have greater imapct.

U up to this!?!?!! If you are not, there are other options but not so action packed.

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lol I know right I will try it out
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ladychevy72 #1564861 01/17/06 10:51 PM
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Set up the meeting time with him and then tell him that you've decided to treat him to dinner and a movie on that night. See what excuses he comes up with. Work it...
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Pin his you know what to the wall. Drive him nut tell himto meet you outside the movies and then when you walk up tell him since he was doing something else that you were going to the movies. then email him again telling him how sorry you were for standing him up when he goes back the second time and your there he will have a heart attack
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soldierswife527 #1564863 01/19/06 05:20 PM
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lol I like that I set a date already and we are meeting Friday at 5pm
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ladychevy72 #1564864 01/19/06 06:36 PM
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Now that your website self is meeting him tomorrow at 5 pm, ask him to go with you-the real wife self-to dinner and a movie at the same time. Watch him squirm and see what excuse he comes up with...

Be sure to let us know how it all goes down...
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It seems to me that if you set up your H in the way that is being suggested, he will still have deniability...he will say that he knew it was you all along...you did just bust him about being a member of that site, after all...remember, it is the practice of the WS to DENY, DENY, DENY...

However, if you could get a friend of yours that he doesn't know to go and meet him with a digital voice recorder on her, hmmm...then you'll be around the corner waiting for your friend to go to the restroom to call you and say she's got the "goods"...well then, your H has no wiggle room, and you'll be singing, "DANCE PUPPET, DANCE"!!!

Just my .02...

Mrs. Wondering

FWW ~ 47 ~ Me
FBH ~ 50 ~ MrWondering
DD ~ 17
Dday ~ 2005 ~ Recovered
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You guys are sooooo devious! FRY HIM!!! <img src="/ubbt/images/graemlins/grin.gif" alt="" />

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