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I think I just figured out why he was nice to me this weekend
#1564921 01/16/06 10:07 AM
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Hubby's friend;y mood this weekend shocked me. I was trying to figure out why the big turn around. I thought maybe we were going to OW house again and he just wanted to be able to brag about what he did over the weekend with his "family" But the weekend passed rather nicely with no invite and I thought he may have just decided we were what he wanted.

A few minutes ago I find out OW has been out of town Friday Sat and Sund. Do you suppose it is coincedince that they were the exact three days he was pleasant to us and wanted sex? I'll be curious to see if his mood changes now that she is back.
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You can count on his mood changing for the worse. That's just the way they are.
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I wouldn't be surprised if that is the case. It would mimic my own experience.

During our multiple false recoveries this past year, my STBX was horrid cruel to me during the times she was cybering and visiting with OM. When he dumped her she would come back and try to be nice to me. The only difference is she would tell me she wanted to save the marriage and do whatever it took to fix it. That lasted until OM contacted her again and told her to turn on her webcam. Then I was dirt again.

I'll repeat something that helped me out and kept me trying to save my marriage. "Believe none of what they say and only half of what they do"

Good Luck Shelby. Plan A.

. I walk the recovery path too, ... but I walk alone. HOW 'BOUT THEM STEELERS! . I've finally realized now, that you just have to keep breathing. Tomorrow the sun will rise, and who knows what the tide will bring. Tom Hanks (Castaway, 2000)
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.... they think we are stupid. And that is due to the fog they are walking in.

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