My H has been gone now since November. He came over last Saturday to visit our kids. (He spent more time talking to me instead). I have avoided LB and continue to be loving and caring regardless of the situation. I am so confused right now. He claims he believe our marriage is worth saving, but does nothing to improve it. He agreed to work on the marriage. I told him I wanted to take small steps in the restoration and he also agreed to that. He asked to talk to me that Saturday and everything came out his mouth was a lie. He claim he will be going to truck driving training and while he is doing that they will send my a benefit package for the kids and me. (I know he is lying because his parents does not know anything about the training and that is something he would tell them). Why is he making up so many lies? He has not come by or call since then. He has been flip flopping about coming home and fixing our marriage since December. The hard part is he seem so sure about fixing it while he is over, but everything changes once he leaves. He periodically would call to see how we are doing and ask to come over to see the children. I guess he feels guilty about being gone and want to make himself feel better. He is still in denial about the other woman. He claims there is no one else, but I am not a fool I know there is. I love him very much and want to save our marriage, but unsure what to do at this point. I am getting very frustrated and don't want to go on in this way much longer. The sad thing is we have only been married now for 11 months. He walked out the week our second child and I came home from the hospital. I am in need of some HELP. PLEASE ADVISE!!