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shattered, SSG, Eagle, SweetP, Nerly and Bellevue (I love the dancing <img src="/ubbt/images/graemlins/wink.gif" alt="" /> ) Thanks so much for the good wishes.
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AW, Dobie and Nikko..ah my idiot pals, thanks! AW, give Mikey a hug from Aunty Faith.
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I'm very happy for you FF.
(But be careful.)
With prayers,
"Never forget that your pain means nothing to a WS." ~Mulan
"An ethical man knows it is wrong to cheat on his wife. A moral man will not actually do it." ~ Ducky
WS: They are who they are.
When an eel lunges out
And it bites off your snout
Thats a moray ~DS
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Thank you, Appy my friend. I will, I promise.
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what is his plan with the OC
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what is his plan with the OC Ark, in the NC letter he told OW that visitation will need to be done through a mediator and included his family. Our discussions regarding OC have been that we will go through legal means to get visitation and that visitation will include me and our COM. Since OC is not yet a year old there would not yet be the issue of overnights.
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!!!YIPPEE!!!Let's Do Some Celebrating... Based on your title I just thought of a variation on one of my favorite jokes for you... Q: If a smart blonde, Santa Claus and Faithful Follower's FWH were walking down the street and a $50 bill were lying on the ground, who would pick it up? A: Faithful Follower's FWH of course, there is no such thing as Santa Claus or a Smart Blonde, silly!!! <img src="/ubbt/images/graemlins/grin.gif" alt="" /> It's okay to have hope here, FF, you know to proceed with caution...HUGS to you my friend!!! Mrs. W (***Disclaimer for those that don't know***I am blonde to the core, so this is not a politically incorrect joke for me***) <img src="/ubbt/images/graemlins/pfft.gif" alt="" />
FWW ~ 47 ~ MeFBH ~ 50 ~ MrWonderingDD ~ 17 Dday ~ 2005 ~ Recovered
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LOL, Mrs Dubya! Thanks for the hugs and encouragement.
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((((FF)))) Awesome news <img src="/ubbt/images/graemlins/smile.gif" alt="" /> Guard yourself by continuing to put your faith in the Heavenly Father. Let your strength come from him. blessings
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((((FF and FWH))) Just love to say this out loud. Stay strong. I have been following you. Now if DOrk ever got a clue..... BUT WOOHOO for FF.
My prayers are quadrupled for ya.
BS-58/XH48
D final Dec31/07
Long hard road & at peace now
Unrepentant serial cheater living with DP4 for 4yrs
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Ark, in the NC letter he told OW that visitation will need to be done through a mediator and included his family. Our discussions regarding OC have been that we will go through legal means to get visitation and that visitation will include me and our COM. Since OC is not yet a year old there would not yet be the issue of overnights. <img src="/ubbt/images/graemlins/smile.gif" alt="" /> <img src="/ubbt/images/graemlins/smile.gif" alt="" /> <img src="/ubbt/images/graemlins/smile.gif" alt="" />
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FF,
I have never posted to you before but I have been following your sitch. You are one strong and brave lady.
I wish you and your FWH the all the best life has to offer. You are a true sucess story either way.
God does answer our prayers. God Bless you and your family....
Hurting
BS (Me)- 47 WH - 46
Married- 24 yrs
3 children 15,19,22
2 grandsons
D-Day- June17, 2005 while I was 1400 miles away
WH living with OW since July 05
WH filed divorce papers Dec. 22, 05
Divorced granted June 28, 06
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I agree with others, go slow.
We knew he loved you too Faith, but the choice hadn't been made.
Now it has and if he hurts you again...I AM HUNTING HIM DOWN!
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Now it has and if he hurts you again...I AM HUNTING HIM DOWN! LOL, Weaver you'll have to get in line behind GC and Bob Pure! <img src="/ubbt/images/graemlins/grin.gif" alt="" /> Hurting' I follow your sitch too. Thanks very much for the good wishes. Ark, I take it that means you approve? <img src="/ubbt/images/graemlins/wink.gif" alt="" />
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FAA and Moveforward, thanks for the prayers... we can use each and every one!
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FF - I can't remember. Did your husband do a DNA test to prove the baby was his?
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Congrats! It's always great to have some success story and Im glad it's you!
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"Never argue with idiots. They drag you down to their level and beat you with experience"
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So...FF....besides a NC letter (did you mail it?) what his plan to restore your trust?
~ Pain is a given, misery is optional ~
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Wonderful news, FF! Congratulations!
"No power in the 'verse can stop me."
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I wondered..............
Why you were quiet about so many things that would be necessarry for you to do if he was leaving.
I wanted to hear from you how YOU were coping.
I was worried about you having to do the work with DS by your self, and how you would hold up.
This explains a lot. It is good news on the face of it. We all hope it sticks.
All of us make mistakes. Some of our mistakes are of such huge proportion that we wonder if they can ever be made right. God can do what we cannot. He has helped you, he can help your H. I hope H knows that, and uses that most important help. I already know you will continue to use it, and I am so glad.
My worry was that you would get worn out with all the work. Very often God requires all that we can give. As you know, it's not easy.
So, you made many of us smile with this one. I am happy for both of you, I wondered if H could and would ever respond. It is so good to know he can, and will. This will heal him too, if he continues it to the end.
I am so happy for your daughter, and your son. What a blessing. What a great blessing.
How do you feel? You have been working for this for months.
What are your thoughts about how far you have come, and how far your H has come?
That he is willing to help now says as much to me as the letter. One without the other would not be worth much.
Anyway, how do you feel? What can you see out ahead of you as you chart your course into the sea of recovery?
SS
I think sometimes about all the pain in the world. I hope we can ease that here, even if only a little bit.
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