hey gang,

Went to the lawyer yesterday. He didn't tell me much that I hadn't found on my own.
Basically what I've done so far is the best thing for our situation. Keep my mouth shut as much as possible and try to get him to agree with as much as possible.
It makes me sick that the law doesn't care one ounce about what a person gives up for the sake of a relationship or the 'moral' issues. It all boils down to money.
With out children or large assets there isn't much to do. I'd only be paying a lot of money (that I dont' have anyway) to try to obtain something that's not even there.
All I can do is try to get him to agree to things and then file the papers (if he doesn't first) to try to protect myself from further debt.

The house is being shown & I hope we get a buyer soon.
I'm down about the whole thing right now.

He didn't come home from his "trip" yesterday.
I dread seeing him. I don't know if I can keep myself together knowing what he was up to all weekend.
Not to mention taking off from his new job & waiting money on someone else. Sickening.

Well, I'll get off my box now.
Hope everyone else is hanging in there.

Hi Tialyn,

Just want to let you know I'm sad for you Tialyn.
It's terrible what your H is doing, and the pain, I know, can be unbearable sometimes. I can't believe he's taking off work now. Are you going to confront him and let him know you know of his affair?

I pray God will comfort you and bless you and make a way for you in all of the mess.

Blessings,
Lady