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I have been reading a book about the power of our words....<P>If your OP said "This sucks, were so pathetic in trying to make something of our marriage," what a crappy negative mode we would start our day with.... We would reach the end of our day with a 90% chance of really believing this.....<P>How about starting each day saying "Honey, We are going to have the most sizzling BEST marraige ever, were on the right track!"<P>Wouldn't this empower you?<P>The Bible says there is great POWER in our tongue....Lets put it to POSITIVE use....<P>Cozy <<<<changing mind modes>>>>
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I started my morning out with this, and then H tells me ..... OW wants me to go visit, and offered me sex....Im sick to my stomach.<P>I just had the best conversation, with lots of tears and hopefulness at reconcilliation.<P>Weve been in Plan B (separated but talking) and I thought we were moving in the right direction....Was sex all H wanted...I told him till he broke off with OW, NO! and then H tells me this.... so much for positive good modes<P>cozy
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Ahhh but the powerful words aren't just for someone else's ears, but as to prophesy so to speak over our situation.<P>Do you want my positive confession Bible study? <P>You were doin so good - aint this rollercoaster wonderful..... ![[Linked Image from marriagebuilders.com]](http://www.marriagebuilders.com/forum/images/icons/frown.gif)
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Im reading a great book on the power of what we speak.... Its written by a Christian and has tons of scripture.... I have a hard time with alot of positive theorys if they don't cover it with the "word", (speak your mercedes into existance!) but this book is good.... Its called "Hung by the Tongue".<P>I am going to think positive in a negative world.....<P>Hope is "Fact not yet realized"... by John McCarther, Grace to You.... I like it!! Its a tape I got today....<P>I am being honery at the moment and sitting in the same chat channel that H and OW are in all the time... I am not doing anything but Im causing ripples...hehee<P>OW said... "Whats going on now?"... "I don't have any more patience for any more garbage!" who asked?????? not me ![[Linked Image from marriagebuilders.com]](http://www.marriagebuilders.com/forum/images/icons/smile.gif) <P>cozy
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Ahhhh you little terror.... <P>Must be better entertainment than MB? I thought MB couldn't get any more entertaining..... ![[Linked Image from marriagebuilders.com]](http://www.marriagebuilders.com/forum/images/icons/wink.gif) <P>I'll send you the study, I think you'll like it - about the same as the books you are reading. <P>TNT <getting sleepy.....zzzzzz><P>LOL!<BR>
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good night Tnt....<P>Im heading that way with my wee one real soon... Shes real sleepy so its time.....<P>cozy
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