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Well he is suppose to be moving out this weekend and I can't stop crying...There hsa been so much tension in my home its a mess How can a man who proclaimed to love you just walk around the house never talking or looking at you with a soft heart ..Somebody please talk to me
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Hi {{Angela}},
I am sorry about what is happening.I went back and read all your posts.
Do you happen to know if your WH's first marriage ended due to an A? I assume he was married before since he has kids.It sounds like he is solving his marital trouble the same ineffectual and harmful ways again.
Your WH is in an A right now.That should tell you that he is not going to act responsibly,rationally or carefully or even lovingly.That is why he is acting the way he is.A's bring out the ugly in everyone involved.
Have you considered Plan A? Read any of the books we recommend? Read the concepts?
O
BW(me)40
DDay 10/11/03
Divorcing
'The Reformer'- enneagram type 1
~Let Higher Minds Prevail~
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~Life isn't complicated,we make it that way~
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Hi Angela-I'm new here and I am in such a hurry but I will go back and read later when I can. I just had to tell you I know just how you feel. I feel like my eyes are eternal wells of tears and no matter how much I cry it will not stop. My daughter got mad at me for crying last night and that hurt too. I can't explain it to her and she feels shut out of what is going on, yet I can't always control my tears. I just wanted you to know that I understand and I feel the same way. PM me if you'd like.
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Angela -
I don't know your story, but I sure know about crying. I did it non-stop the first time I went thru this. My eyes were red and I had big black bags under them all the time. They were raw from wiping them all the time. But, they were in great shape compared to my heart.
I just wanted you know that I feel your pain. And, if crying helps, just let it happen.
Things WILL get better. I promise.
WTW
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